People who work too hard in the workplace will not work well.
When I first started working, I worked too hard, too hard. I often ran into obstacles at work, and was easily confused and self-depleted.
But now I am completely different, because I have understood the truth about the workplace, and then changed my work mentality and code of conduct, and will never "compete seriously".
Truth 1. Criticism and praise in the workplace are tools to discipline employees
All leaders' evaluations are to make you work:
If they recognize you, don't be arrogant, because they want you to continue to do more work;
If they don't recognize you, don't take it to heart, because they want you to work according to their wishes.
So just listen to them, don't take it too seriously, let alone have a low self-evaluation. Their praise, nitpicking, positive and negative feedback are all to make you work more smoothly and work efficiently according to their ideas.
Truth 2. There are no real friends in the workplace
They are colleagues at work, and passers-by after get off work. They laugh with you on the surface, but they may stab you in the back.
Especially when it comes to promotion and competition for interests among colleagues, it is even more ruthless.
Don't treat your colleagues as friends easily. Everyone comes to work for work, and at most they are partners for eating and drinking milk tea. Don't tell them everything.
Truth 3: You don't need to be liked at work, you just need to be capable
Have the courage to be hated, you don't need to be liked by everyone at work, as long as you have the ability to do things and be recognized.
For the evaluation of leaders or colleagues, extract the parts that are useful to your work.
Don't be embarrassed because you finish the work early. Colleagues think you are not sociable, which cannot affect your salary. If the leader thinks it is not appropriate, just pretend.
Truth 4: It is normal that the work does not get good results
If every task and work has results, the company would have rung the market bell long ago, so there is no need to blame yourself for work without results.
Being criticized by the client, being stood up by the leader... are all trivial matters, everyone has experienced it, failure is failure, no big deal!
The normal state of work and life is: if you work hard, there may be no results. If you don't work hard, there will definitely be no results. If you fail, summarize your experience. Come back next time, we can’t always complete the game the first time.
Truth 5: Life is always more important than work
Don’t be fooled by the promises made by your boss, and focus on the salary.
If you can improve yourself, get a promotion and a raise, then do it for yourself. If this job has no other benefits besides the salary, then treat it as an ordinary task.
Make sure you deserve the salary and forget about it after get off work. After all, you have to come back tomorrow morning. Relax after get off work and recharge yourself. Having a good body is more important than anything else.
