The most terrible phenomenon in a family is mental exhaustion. When parents develop the habit of belittling and denying their children, they can talk to them nicely, but they will respond with ridicule and questioning, which makes you extremely uncomfortable. In their eyes, other people's children are excellent, but you don't seem to have any advantages. When you choose to fight back, they will quickly turn into the victim to gain sympathy and support. Make you feel guilty and regretful. "Don't use your regrets to kidnap your own children."