In my experience, there are two types of women in this society. One is that if she doesn't like you and doesn't want to be with you, she won't accept your gifts or money, let alone take the initiative to ask for it. On the contrary, if she likes you or doesn't like you, or doesn't want to be with you, she will ask for your money and gifts, and will take the initiative to ask for them. She may even ask you to transfer money and write that it is a voluntary gift.

When I was in my 20s, the women I liked were all of the first type, so no woman ever cheated on me. But later I liked people with complementary personalities, so I met those who like to take advantage, gold diggers, and scammers. They also have different appearances and dresses. Gold diggers also have a common dress, that is, they will ask you to buy things for them as soon as you meet them.

And gold diggers have another commonality, that is, they are cruel and ruthless, and they often sell themselves out.

In short, those who take the initiative to ask you for money are not necessarily gold diggers, but they are definitely from this type. They are good people, and they don't want to be with you, so they won't cheat on you.