The poor people you think of work hard every day. When they get home, their children take their perfect papers to their fathers for signature. Their mothers prepare delicious meals and keep the house clean. Although they are not rich, their children are sensible, obedient and filial, and their husbands and wives love and live in harmony. The elderly at home are caring and considerate, and they can also get some pensions.

In fact, the adults go out to work, and the children are left behind. They have no money and no love. The grandparents at home either spoil them to death or ignore them. They have no social skills, courtesy, integrity, and literary and artistic skills. None of them. They grow up in a muddle-headed way and drop out of school at the age of fifteen or sixteen. They work in an electronics factory. The family quarrels and scolds each other every day, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have conflicts, the brothers and sisters are out of harmony, the husband and wife scold and fight each other, the children are abused when they are young, and they are hostile to their parents when they grow up. They blame each other. Breaking a bowl is a big deal. They can scold each other for three days. If they are lucky, they can get by with hard work, but they will also get sick in the middle, suffer countless grievances, and taste the taste of being servile and despised. If you are unlucky, you will continue to screw until you die. You will be promoted when you are 35 years old. You can do odd jobs when you are 40 or 50 years old. When you are over 55, you can only look through the trash can and be exploited.

In the end, the girl receives hundreds of thousands of betrothal gifts to marry, but she cannot take a dime of the betrothal gifts with her. She only gets two quilts and has to support her parents. She is treated as a blood bag and sucked dry. After giving birth to a child, she throws the child to her parents-in-law and goes out with her husband to work to earn money to pay off the debt, so that the child repeats her life. Men will be single all their lives, or sell their sisters for money to buy a wife, so that the child repeats his life.

Without money, people's minds are full of how to make money. Money is everything. There is no love. Even if there is money, you can only say to the child, who told you that you have a bad life, this is your life, just bear it!

There is also a worst case, that is, you can't keep the child even if you give birth. I have a relative whose child has cancer. I went to the pediatric cancer department to see the hospitalized child. What I saw along the way was horrifying. Doctors say that the basic mortality rate of childhood cancer is over 90%, and the probability of recurrence is also very high after treatment, and most of them die from recurrence.

My relative's child also died of recurrence and infection. After she died, her mother knelt down holding her. She was so sad that she had no tears. Her mother just repeatedly told her not to come to her house again in the next life. Her mother had no money and no ability, and could not save her.

In fact, the type of cancer she had was quite special. Even if one had money, there was no successful case of treatment. But her mother was heartbroken and kept blaming herself for not having money. Even if she had lost everything and was heavily in debt, she still couldn't save her. It was really heartbreaking.