Let's talk about something outside the circle, about life!

How do parents ruin their children?

When you're young, they suppress you,

When you grow up, they tell you to be more confident.

When you're a child, they tell you not to compare your food and clothing with others,

When you grow up, if you don't compare, they say you're unsuccessful.

In school, they tell you not to fall in love early,

When you graduate, they urge you to get married soon.

In childhood, they demand you to be rigidly honest like Hai Rui,

When you grow up, they expect you to be flexible and cunning like Qin Hui.