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My grandfather was a farmer.
My father is in the system
I am outside the system
How to move up when you are nearly 40
1. Choosing a major, school, and city is just the beginning
This rule applies to both men and women, young and old
But the details that need attention are to choose the right major
Choose the right school, choose the right city
For example, in computer science
It is best to study in a city with advanced IT
Stay there after graduation
Otherwise you study somewhere else
Then I moved to the city where I live and bought a house to settle down.
The time cost and turnover loss in the middle are very high
For example, if you want to study medicine, it is best to go to Suzhou, Shanghai or other places with developed pharmaceutical industries.
You insist on working in a place where the local industry does not match your university major.
Of course it's very difficult
Choosing a major depends on future trends
For example, population aging and decline and K12 policy reasons
It is not wise to apply for normal school again
For example, rehabilitation professions that will serve the elderly in the future
Artificial intelligence, etc., follow the trend
It may be easier to find a job.
Study to get a master's degree and enter the system
Lucky and with high EQ, you get a position with resources and power.
Study to get a PhD, apply for a scholarship, return to your home country with the overseas technology to start a business, or join a promising startup company and get options, and once the company goes public, you will become financially independent.
Reading can only train people's thinking and find ways to solve problems quickly.
It can even broaden your horizons, but reading won’t make you rich immediately.
Business has a complete set of business logic
Business is about finding opportunities and executing them boldly.
It involves a lot of knowledge, including financial, tax and legal knowledge
Marketing knowledge, interpersonal relationship maintenance, insight into market changes
Consumer/Customer Psychology (Human Nature)
Business model design
Pricing strategy and charging model
Management knowledge, etc.
It is difficult for us to learn mathematics, physics, chemistry, geography and history from primary school to university.
However, education from childhood is the foundation
If the foundation is not solid, the rest will collapse.
Essentially, the six-year and nine-year compulsory education and the subsequent non-compulsory education are only to systematically cultivate people's thinking and logical abilities.
Rather than giving people the skills to make money
The real skills that can be used to make money are university majors.
and inheritance of business from parents or relatives
2. Marriage
Marriage after adulthood must be a match made in heaven.
To put it bluntly, you think marriage is a shortcut and a stepping stone
In fact, marriage
The underlying logic behind this is still the game of genes (appearance and intelligence level).
Marriage depends on the accumulation of your parents and even your grandparents.
(As for family background, ordinary people can get the same level as their parents.
A famous family must look back to the grandparents and even n generations of ancestors.)
It also depends on your personal ability and accomplishments (work unit, annual income, etc.)
But one rule that applies to both men and women is
Try to get into a good school for both primary, middle, high and university
Screen high-quality potential stocks among your classmates
(For example, top candidates who are good at studying and have high emotional intelligence, the person in charge of the student union, and seniors who are close to teachers/mentors)
Because children from prestigious schools have neither personal qualities nor parental resources and capabilities
All are guaranteed
And the student years are the only time when class consciousness is not strong.
It is easy to cultivate feelings and seize a potential stock
Because at that time, people were not too utilitarian and were relatively simple.
Marriage and studies after adulthood (sometimes there are good-looking people, but they are rare)
High-quality men are more likely to move up and marry than women
The best way is to ask the tutor's daughter or niece
The daughter or niece of the dean, the daughter or niece of the leader, etc.
Because white, rich and beautiful women usually come from a good family, it would be great if they could find a father-in-law.
But it is basically difficult for a daughter-like only child to stand on her own.
This is when the son-in-law comes into play
A father-in-law will generally choose a son-in-law with good education and good character to assist or even inherit his career.
If you can successfully marry a white, rich and beautiful woman
It's like giving you all your father-in-law's life's hard work.
Refer to Wang Shi, Liu Luanxiong, Li Ka-shing, etc.
But when I was young, I had to be humble in the home of a rich and beautiful woman.
Low-key and positive, gradually transferring power and developing oneself in middle age
Gradually you will gain some initiative and some family status
After adulthood, it is difficult for women to get married.
If you don't have a good education and family background
Most of them will become playthings of the rich second generation.
There are also a small number of women with outstanding beauty and high emotional intelligence.
You can marry a rich man, but it is rare
And after marriage, you need to bear a lot of burdens and tolerate a lot and always maintain a positive attitude.
For example, you need to be good at everything and take care of the housework.
Need to turn a blind eye to your partner's flirting
Need to please the parents-in-law and the man's family, need to be a reproductive machine
Need to keep your figure attractive at all times
Need to put up with husband's temper, etc.
It's not easier than working hard to make money
The essence of human interaction is value exchange
Insufficient personal value needs to be supplemented by emotional intelligence
And the dedication to the family
Difficult to measure, and often understated
Unlike working outside, the gains are not easy to measure
As the saying goes, marrying high and swallowing needles
So marriage is not an easy path to take.
And it is still a comprehensive evaluation indicator
It still depends on family background, personal ability and strength (in fact, family background and strength test the IQ + opportunities of parents).
Personal strength tests one's IQ + opportunity)
Ultimately, it’s a competition at the genetic level.
3. Going Abroad
Low-level workers can consider learning a skill
Then find the right agent to work abroad
Such as chefs, nurses, and decorators
Blue-collar workers abroad earn more than in China
The prerequisite is to pass the foreign language test and be able to endure hardship.
Enduring loneliness and separation from loved ones
4. Hit the right wind
For example, catching up with the real estate boom
Using leverage to speculate in real estate
Hoarding Bitcoin when no one knew about it
Started making short videos when no one else was making short videos
I didn’t know how to do micro-business when I was young.
Requires keen insight and execution
At the front of the vent
See some emerging opportunities and trends
5. Value investing
Take off with the power of the platform and trends
Join a little-known but promising company
Always accompany the company's growth
Buying shares in a promising company, etc.
I have a friend who has a technical secondary school degree. He has never been able to change his job.
Working day after day for more than ten years
Following the boss from a few people to the IPO
Finally, even if a small proportion of shares were allocated
But as the original shareholders, there are already tens of millions
6. Meet a noble person
Find someone who is willing to bring you into the industry or support you
Serve Him
He will give you some resources or opportunities.
7. Destroy fields and cities by attacking with dimensionality reduction
Bringing popular foreign businesses to China
Move domestic business abroad
Move popular commercial projects in first-tier cities to second-tier cities
Bringing athletes trained in the US to compete in China (such as Gu Ailing)
Girls apply for computer major
Finding a date in a college full of male students, etc.
Another example is Chinese programmers taking part-time jobs in the United States
Earning the difference in foreign exchange rates is equivalent to earning several times the money for one job, etc.
8. Luck
For example, buying the Mark Six lottery
Encountering accidental events such as house demolition, etc.
9. Make friends and keep an open mind
If you work in one place all your life, you will never see opportunities.
In your spare time, you must walk and see more
Rich people can see many business opportunities while traveling
Poor people can meet different people when they travel
You might meet someone noble.
But we need to carefully identify
Most of the chances of transitioning require some luck.
For example, meeting a noble person, or winning the lottery
The other thing you can do is study.
But the underlying logic of reading is also IQ
People with high IQs learn quickly
It's easy to get knowledge.
Studying and getting married are two paths that ordinary people seem to be able to take, but the underlying logic behind these two is IQ.
Studying depends on your inherited IQ, the wealth created by your parents' IQ when they were young, the educational environment brought by your own efforts
Getting married depends on how well you study when you are in school. If you have a good education, your parents have laid a good foundation, and you can find a good job, it will be easy to find a partner who is of equal status or to move up the social ladder.
Therefore, human competition is essentially a competition at the genetic level.
Including the appearance and intelligence level brought from the mother's womb
If you are an adult
Missed reading
If you miss your marriage, just lie down
This is fate
It is best to lie on one side
Keep your body healthy and don't pull your hips
Keep your spirits high and happy
In short, I am happy physically and mentally
Dilute material desires
At least keep your class from slipping
So a person's intelligence level is the most scarce thing
It is difficult to change what is innate
But acquired education and reading can change some of them
Appearance can be changed through technical means (plastic surgery)
It is no longer scarce in modern society
Therefore, the most scarce thing for humans is intelligence.
This determines what class your parents belong to.
It will also determine what class you are in.
If parents are frugal
No big money, no big illness
I am just like my parents
No big money, no big illness
The probability is that the class will not decline.
Gradually accumulating wealth and managing finances slowly can achieve a small fortune.
To rise up the social ladder
First of all, you need to be lucky enough to encounter a low-probability event.
Therefore, the only options for ordinary people are to study and work abroad.
Marriage is not a particularly good springboard
Because men and women nowadays are not stupid
Their parents aren't stupid.
I don’t want to find a family or person who is worse than me.
Another one is that even if the upward marriage is achieved
There will be various variables, and the mistress and the fourth mistress are waiting for divorce.
You have to treat your rich second-generation husband like a boss
Although the material seems rich, the spirit is not necessarily relaxed.
Someone mentioned starting a business, which is also a way
But starting a business is a life of death
Requires very good business perception and cognition
Business practical skills are required
Requires very high emotional intelligence, customer and government affairs relationship maintenance and management capabilities
(The ability to control people and understand human nature)
Need to be ruthless and quick
You need a direct relative or collateral relative to lead the way
Business is changing rapidly, small businesses can
Big businesses can easily fail and return to poverty (e.g., a large number of people die in an epidemic)
So for ordinary people
It can be used as a livelihood (it is OK to set up a stall and run it honestly)
But changing class may be a little difficult (it is difficult to become bigger and stronger)
How to choose growth companies
First of all, the business direction is what you like and is suitable for you.
Because I want to grow with a company.
It is likely to serve for many years
There is no way to persevere in doing things that are not in line with your interests.
Second, see whether the company's business meets future trends and whether the product has a large number of users (this determines how big the market size can be)
Can it meet the needs
Are there any technical barriers (moats) to products and technologies?
Third, look at the background of the company’s startup team and investors
After choosing, calm down
Work hard, when the company matures and the products mature
It’s harvest time
