叶小野

2025年大家赚了多少？

How to Become More Discreet:

1. Do not post in your social circle.

2. Do not deeply engage with people who are too familiar.

3. Do not offer suggestions, and even more so, do not help others make decisions.

4. When a group of people are chatting, just listen and do not speak.

5. Stay away from petty and insincere people, but do not offend them.

6. Do not say what cannot be said in person, and do not talk about it behind their back.

7. Maintain calmness and rationality, and do not expose your true feelings in any situation.

8. Learn to hide your intentions and purposes, and do not easily reveal your trump cards.

9. Maintain an air of mystery, and do not easily disclose your plans and actions.

10. Do not easily believe in others' promises and surface friendliness; stay vigilant.

11. Learn to observe and analyze others' words and actions to gain beneficial information.

12. Avoid overly expressing your emotions and feelings, and maintain inner peace and stability.

13. Do not argue or debate with others; maintain your views and stance, but do not deliberately provoke others.

14. Learn to control your language and expressions; do not easily reveal your true thoughts.

15. Maintain distance from others; do not overly rely on or trust them.

16. Learn to hide your advantages and abilities; do not easily showcase your strength.

17. Maintain respect and politeness towards others, but do not easily show weakness or humility.

18. Learn to utilize others' weaknesses and flaws, but do not harm their interests and dignity.

19. Maintain a calm and composed attitude; do not be influenced by others' words and actions.

20. Learn to master the channels and sources of information to obtain beneficial intelligence and news, to protect your interests and safety.

Are you suffocated by a terrible life, feeling like you, like me, have played a good hand poorly, lost in a vicious cycle of losing hope for a beautiful future, feeling that life has no meaning, and even having the thought of giving up? Your heart feels like ruins. My friend, I don’t want to preach because I know that feeling. Just like my past self, who desperately hoped that someone or a book could truly help me. Don’t let everything inside you remain in the ruins, if you don’t look up, no one in the world can pull your hand to move forward. My friend, you must have the thought of fighting for your destiny, even if this life has been shattered by our past selves. Remember, if you choose to fall, even the gods cannot save you.
You must grow from the dead end, and we can all shine brightly, but first, you must sweat profusely.

Do you deserve help from a benefactor! In 2016, I met Brother Chao. At 25, he had already gone from being a poor kid to a small boss making a million a year. Later, I found out he was actually a wealthy second-generation heir worth over a billion. At 18, he was picked up and dropped off in a Rolls Royce every day. By 19, his family fell on hard times, and he used the last 100,000 yuan from a small business to make 600,000. At 23, after the ups and downs of online sales and earning a million a year, he had a sudden realization. He said, one cannot rely on others; being complacent will unconsciously stifle your life. The so-called benefactor can only be described as another name for a partner. Only when you have value will others invest in you. If you want to receive help, first think clearly about why they should help you and what qualifies you for their assistance. Never expect love without reason; it’s just a story, not reality. Because Brother Chao understands the importance of working hard to enhance one’s own value, inner value. Who you are determines your legacy. The more outstanding you are, the more benefactors will notice you. When you have no value, no matter how much you flatter and seek to please, it is meaningless!

In March 2018, I drove a Land Rover accompanying several mothers on the first day of promotion. I encountered Lulu again, who had nothing two years ago, during her first street promotion. I asked a beautiful girl, "Could you help me scan this code?" She replied, "No need, thanks!" I shamelessly continued. Two years later, I met her again!
Lulu said that through a friend's recommendation, she had actually been silently following me for two years. I never expected that in just two years, a woman could achieve the standard of life on her own. Now, she can still put aside her pride and promote like before. A successful person told me that if there’s no face worth 10 million on the card, it's better to step on it a few times. In three years, I’ve gained recognition from more and more people. But I didn't realize that during online sales, I was rejected by over 10,000 people. At that time, you would find that face value is worthless; it can't be exchanged for oil, salt, sauce, or vinegar. I know that a person's success begins with the persistence of not being ashamed. My continued efforts stem from my desire to live as the person I like.

In 2016, while promoting my own brand on the street, I met Yaoyao, who weighed only 69 pounds. Even in the scorching summer, he continued to promote outside. On the third day of our acquaintance, he said his mother was sick and urgently needed 8,000 yuan for squid. I chose to help him. A week later, I messaged him to ask if he was there, but to my surprise, he had blocked me. I thought that by being kind, I would surely receive warmth from others, but it turned out that human hearts are unpredictable! Over the three years, through online sales combined with joint promotions, I bought a Land Rover and have my own home in Zhongshan. Many people helped me along the way; every person who helped me, I didn't just thank with words. For example, when a stranger asks me a question, I would first attach a red envelope of 66 or 666 yuan. After receiving the answer, I would attach a thank-you red envelope. I understand! The month is gratitude, but the month does not return! In October 2019, in the pedestrian street, I saw Yaoyao's small frame still repeating the same work as before. I did not seek him out. I realized that in the adult world, not everyone deserves your kindness, and it's important to keep your distance from those who do not understand gratitude. A person's kindness is truly a gamble; you never know when a surprise will come.

Positive thinking leads to a positive life, negative thinking leads to a negative life.
 
5. Mockery is a form of power, a negative power. Praise is also a form of power, but it is a positive power.
 
6. Our world never awards medals to a sad loser.
 
7. Positive thinkers believe that only by pushing themselves can they push the world; as long as they push themselves, they can push the world.
 
8. Wisdom is not a dead recitation, but a living contemplation.
 
9. There is only one path that cannot be chosen — that is the path of giving up; there is only one path that cannot be refused — that is the path of growth.
 
10. Forget about failure, but remember the lessons from failure.
 
11. The road ahead is always under your feet; by moving forward, you will always be the highest one. Believe in yourself, and everything is possible.
 
12. The reason people can is that they believe they can.
 
13. If you fear the ups and downs of the mountains ahead, life will forever be a stagnant pool.
 
14. If you wish to succeed, make perseverance your friend, experience your advisor, caution your brother, and hope your sentinel.
 

79. On the journey of life, do what makes you happy. No matter how hard you try, in everyone's heart, there is actually a lamp.

80. Many times we need patience, to endure loneliness, and wait for that moment that belongs to you.

81. Try to learn to say "no". Sometimes, good people can be taken advantage of, and good horses can be ridden. Helping others does not always bring gratitude.

82. Some people and things from the past are still hard to forget. The memories let us experience some of the bitterness, feeling the emotions of the past.

83. Pain is not terrifying, suffering is not to be feared. What is scary is when no one asks about you when you're suffering, and no one comforts you when you're in pain.

84. Everything follows the heart, the world returns to the heart. When the mind shifts, all thoughts shift; when the heart road opens, all paths open.

85. Time will take away our youth, but it cannot take away those memories, those beautiful moments.

86. Some things can be measured by winning or losing. Winning brings temporary joy, and losing can allow you to start over.

87. When the dream awakens, I realize it was all an illusion. I never understood it; it is sweet, something I have never experienced, something I did not comprehend was just a dream.

88. You are the sun I cannot embrace; after all, you are the light for so many people.

89. True letting go is silent. The more ostentatious the letting go, the more it shows hesitation.

90. There are many roads, and when walking, one forgets to look back. By the time you want to look back, everything has changed.

91. The cruelest part of life is that the person who pushes you into hell once took you to heaven.

92. No matter how warm the weather, I feel cold without you; no matter how cold the weather, I don't feel cold with you.

93. People are actually quite contradictory. They always hope to be understood while fearing that others will see through them.

94. The farthest distance in the world is not love, not hate, but the familiar person gradually becoming a stranger.

95. When everything quiets down, I suddenly realize that habits can be a terrifying thing; they are hard to quit and hard to forget.

96. When I'm in a bad mood, I just want to be quietly alone. I don’t seek comfort, only someone who understands.

97. The past is like a paperclip, fixing our youth page by page, then turning into a book that is never published.

98. Youth is like toilet paper; it looks abundant, but it quickly runs out.

67. Time flows like water, once gone never to return, fleeting and does not allow you a moment's pause or a hint of longing.
 
68. On the road of life, patience gives you strength, patience helps you see the direction; patience enables you to progress smoothly, patience helps you face fewer waves.
 
69. In times of prosperity, reflect more; in times of adversity, have more courage; in times of success, maintain calm; in times of uncertainty, have more faith.
 
70. Life has both bitterness and joy, with both sadness and happiness; when feeling unhappy, try to let it out, don't let sorrow block your heart; when feeling irritable, learn to restrain yourself to avoid harming relationships.
 
71. The darkest part of the day is before dawn, but it is also the closest to light; the calmest time is before the storm, but the rainbow always appears after the rain.
 
72. For a genius, suffering is a stepping stone; for a capable person, it is a treasure; but for an ordinary person, it is an abyss.
 
73. Great people change the environment, capable people utilize the environment, ordinary people adapt to the environment, and incompetent people fail to adapt to the environment.
 
74. Opportunities are like a thief; when they come, they are silent, but when they leave, you suffer greatly.
 
75. Someone can deceive you once, shame on them; but if they can deceive you twice, shame on you.
 
76. Do not be angry, do not be disappointed, do not be overly joyful; everything will pass.
 
77. When something happens, it is wise to think thrice; when anger strikes the heart, it is best to endure; taking a step back allows for a broader view of the sky and sea.
 
78. The person whose actions are most laughable is always the one who is the first to speak ill of others.

33. Marriage is an umbrella. With it, one is naturally comfortable in the storm and under the scorching sun, but in the more mundane weather, an extra umbrella can inevitably become a burden.
 
34. When faced with deception, one can forgive, but cannot forget; one can choose not to expose it, but cannot remain indifferent.
 
35. Enduring and swallowing anger occasionally is not too much, but if it becomes a habit, then it is not fate but an unforgivable mistake.
 
36. Breaking out of one's inner self to see the world brings a kind of calm called unperturbed tranquility; the peace of the heart is a form of nobility and dignity.
 
37. Do not say whatever comes to mind, and do not act on every impulse; a single instance of rashness is already enough.
 
38. Books, all kinds of books. Books carry humanity's fervent hopes; books contain rich human insights. When it comes to books, there are endless words to express...
 
39. I tugged at the dress of spring, and spring took me into a green world.
 
40. Life is always like this: what you think you have lost may be on its way to you; what you think you possess may be on its way away from you.
 
41. Life is like a kaleidoscope; please enjoy it before it melts away.
 
42. The road of life, whether smooth or bumpy, involves many experiences, some hard and some easy; what you gain is truly yours.
 
43. In life, there are always some sorrows and unhappiness that merge into our hearts; there are always some feelings of sadness and melancholy that belong to us.
 
44. Treasure what you have gained, do not regret what you have lost, do not make things difficult for yourself, do not be too demanding of others; if you have tried your best, then you can have a clear conscience, with no regrets.
 
45. No matter how short the road, you must walk it alone if no one accompanies you; no matter how difficult the task, you must do it alone if no one helps.
 
46. What we once regarded as beautiful may actually be wrong; what we once did not consider may actually be beautiful. Life teaches us that regardless of whether we know what the future holds, we must all strive.
 
47. To prevent sorrow from ravaging us, we can only take action.
 
48. When speaking well of someone, one should set aside immediate interests; when speaking ill of someone, one should consider immediate interests.
 
49. Hearing sweet words can stir the heart, but one must not lose oneself; not being moved is false, but losing oneself may turn it into reality.
 
50. Those who speak well of you behind your back are truly good; those who help you behind your back are truly helpful.
 

 

12. Sometimes, be a little more restrained with yourself and temper your anger; be a little more tolerant with others, and you will find that the world around you is often wiser and more forgiving than you think.

13. Do not easily rely on someone; it will become your habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not just a person, but the pillar of your spirit. Independence will help you walk more confidently.

14. Do not waste your life on places where you will definitely regret.

15. Time is like a piece of clothing; through washing and changing, before you know it, it has become smaller.

16. The more difficult it is, the more you must do. Reform has never been smooth sailing.

17. Life is like my singing, sometimes unreliable, sometimes out of tune.

18. Longing cannot be self-managed, pain cannot be self-handled, results cannot be self-obtained, and happiness cannot be self-bestowed.

19. Being brave enough to accept others' advice can better help you adjust your shortcomings; you should be grateful to those who point out your flaws.

20. Life is like a book; fools skim through it hastily, while wise people read it carefully.

21. Both main and supporting characters can act; on and off stage, be at ease. In facing life, you should cultivate a personality that is adaptable.

22. Rather than saying others cause you pain, it is better to say that your own cultivation is insufficient.

23. Giving up what should be given up is helplessness; giving up what should not be given up is incompetence; not giving up what should be given up is ignorance; not giving up what should not be given up is perseverance.

24. It is not pitiful to know confusion; it is truly pitiful not to know confusion.

25. When dealing with matters, there is no need to seek merit; no faults are merits; in being a person, there is no need to feel gratitude; no complaints are virtues.

26. It is not someone that bothers me, but rather I worry myself with someone else's words and actions.

27. Hope is attached to existence; where there is existence, there is hope; where there is hope, there is brightness.

28. The flowing clouds are at the horizon, and the travel bag is in front of me; there is a road leading to the sun that is boundless and without end.

29. Every injury is a form of maturity; it makes one reflect, strengthens one, and helps one to cherish more.

30. Fate considers itself humorous; too many thoughts are beyond my control.

31. Those who love you teach you gentleness; those who hate you teach you caution; those who are indifferent to you teach you independence.

1. The direction of the wind is determined by the trees, while the direction of a person is determined by themselves.
 
2. With a little less preset expectations, the care for others will be more at ease.
 
3. Don't listen to a thousand words from others; observe their actual behavior, and more importantly, look at their mindset before those actions.
 
4. When you advise others, if you disregard their self-esteem, then no matter how good your words are, they will be useless.
 
5. With a little more gratitude in life, there will be a little more beauty.
 
6. Being a good person relies on a kind heart; being a 'nice guy' relies on a capricious face.
 
7. When dealing with matters, there's no need to seek credit; no faults is itself a credit; when being with others, there's no need to feel grateful; no complaints is itself virtue.
 
8. If I could see my own silhouette, I think it would be very sad, because I have left all my happiness in front of me.
 
9. Life is like a cup of tea; it won't be bitter for a lifetime, but it will always be bitter for a while.
 
10. The character of 'attitude' in mindset, when broken down, means to have a bigger heart.
 
11. The small wise are aggressive, the small kind are calculative, and the small proud show an arrogant face that is insufferable.

297. Mockery is a form of power, a negative power. Praise is also a form of power, but it is a positive power.
 
298. Those who are determined have countless strategies, while those who lack ambition only feel countless difficulties.
 
299. Believing is strength, doubt only suppresses ability, and faith is power.
 
300. The most pitiable aspect of human nature is that we always dream of a marvelous rose garden on the horizon, instead of appreciating the roses blooming right outside our window today.

280. There are no hopeless situations in the world, only people who are hopeless about their situations.

281. Leave some space for your supervisor—supervisors also need a sense of security.

282. Don't ask others what they have done for you, but ask yourself what you have done for others.

283. No matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step; no matter how short the road is, you cannot reach it without taking a step.

284. The world is not perfect, and life should not be either. Leaving some regrets can make people more awake, encourage them to strive forward, and can even be a good thing. There is a saying that a grandmother without wrinkles is the most frightening, and a past without regrets cannot connect to life.

285. Nothing is as contagious as enthusiasm; it can move even the hardest of stones, and it is the essence of sincerity.

286. What is failure? It is nothing, just one step closer to success; what is success? It is having walked all the paths leading to failure, leaving only one path, which is the path to success.

287. In the history of the world, every great and noble moment is a victory of some kind of passion.

288. The reason great people are great is that when others lose confidence in adversity, they resolve to achieve their goals.

289. Don’t be angry; be motivated. Don’t just see through; break through. Don’t be jealous; appreciate. Don’t procrastinate; be proactive. Don’t just feel; take action.

290. Fishing? Be careful not to catch a crab!—Fishing can become a burden in your social life.

291. Daydreaming can come up with many brilliant ideas, but it cannot accomplish anything.

292. The fastest and most certain way to conquer fear and build confidence is to do what you are afraid of until you gain the experience of success.

293. Do not monopolize glory—monopolizing glory will one day lead to bearing the bitter fruit alone.

294. Work hard and forget to eat, enjoy and forget your worries, unaware that old age is approaching.

295. Strong beliefs will win over strong people and then make them even stronger.

296. A person's greatest bankruptcy is despair, and their greatest asset is hope.

267. Use patience to warm the cold bench—having sat on a cold bench, what is there to fear?

268. There are three realms in life: seeing mountains as mountains, seeing water as water; seeing mountains as not mountains, seeing water as not water; seeing mountains as still mountains, seeing water as still water.

269. The establishment of a great career in life lies not in knowing, but in doing.

270. Those who sow with tears will surely reap with smiles.

271. If you don't want to do something, don't think about reaching any place in this world.

272. Obstacles and failures are the most reliable stepping stones to success; if one is willing to study and utilize them, success can be cultivated from failure.

273. The speed of a leader determines the efficiency of the team.

274. Maintain hope in adversity, and do not forget worry in good fortune; this way, you can calmly bear both misfortunes and blessings.

275. Defeating oneself is the saddest failure, while conquering oneself is the most precious victory.

276. Bullfighting when you are not afraid is nothing; not bullfighting when you are afraid is also nothing; only bullfighting when you are afraid is truly remarkable.

277. Those who applaud others are also fueling their own lives.

278. It is not because certain things are difficult to achieve that we lose confidence; rather, it is because we have lost confidence that certain things appear difficult to achieve.

279. Positive people see an opportunity in every trouble, while negative people see some trouble in every opportunity.

258. There are no perfect individuals, only perfect teams.

259. Everything in this world is accomplished through hope. A farmer will not pluck a grain of corn if he does not hope for it to grow into a seed; a bachelor will not marry if he does not hope to have children; a businessman will not work if he does not hope for profit from it.

260. In real life, every great achievement begins with faith and takes the first step with faith.

261. Take a risk! Life itself is an adventure. Those who go the farthest are often the ones willing to act and willing to take risks.

262. The distance between success and failure is sometimes very short—just a few more steps forward for the latter.

263. Behind every effort, there must be a double reward.

264. To calculate everything with a calculating heart leads to countless mistakes, while to reflect on things with a thoughtful mind brings understanding. Intentionally planting flowers may not bloom, while unintentionally inserting willows may take root. This is the principle of achieving things.

265. Success is not something that will come in the future; it is built up continuously from the moment one decides to act.

266. Without enthusiasm, there is no progress in the world.

233. The spring water of the mountain stream sings a wonderful song only after a winding journey.

234. If small talk is just a greeting that ends there, what is the difference from a monkey's call? In fact, proper small talk must clearly express your care for him in a brief sentence.

235. Ideas come first, skills become apparent.

236. To change fate, one must first change oneself.

237. If you want to fly, you must chase; to succeed, you must work hard.

238. Challenge the limits, stand out with vigor and brilliance, and excel among others.

239. Heaven sets up numerous obstacles on the road solely to strengthen your will.

240. The joy of life depends on our level of concern for it.

241. Value contracts, ensure quality, deliver on time, and strictly keep promises.

242. Where there are mountains, there is a way; where there are rivers, one can cross.

243. Action is the ladder to success; the more you act, the higher you climb.

244. Endure hardships that others cannot bear, tolerate grievances that others cannot tolerate, do what others cannot do, and you will enjoy what others cannot enjoy.

245. Take the initiative one step at a time, stay proactive and stay ahead, enjoy the glory; take a passive step, and you'll be passive at every turn, lagging behind, suffering in poverty.

246. Do not doubt your efforts; these will accumulate and settle down, silently paving the way for you to become a better person.

247. Laborers use their hands, helmsmen use both hands and minds, artists use their hands, minds, and hearts; only those who collaborate their hands, minds, hearts, and feet are salespeople.

248. A warrior can brave turbulent waves without sinking, while a coward will drown even in calm waters.

249. The rules of success are extremely simple, but simplicity does not mean ease.

250. Endure hardships that others cannot bear, tolerate grievances that others cannot tolerate, do what others cannot do,

251. The strength developed by a believer is greater than that of one who is merely interested.

252. Busy bees collecting nectar have no time to boast in front of others.

253. The names of bystanders will never climb onto the scoreboard of the competition.

219. The three major problems of losers are servility, laziness, and shirking responsibility. Not thinking independently and listening to everything the boss says is servility. If the boss nudges you to act and you don't know what to do proactively, that's laziness. Blaming the boss, the workplace, or society when things don't go well is shirking responsibility.

220. Life is a factory that never stops; there is no place for lazy people there. Work! Create!

221. Empty pockets cannot hinder your future; an empty mind will leave you forever poor.

222. Being poor does not necessarily mean thinking of change; one should think of wealth and change.

223. There is no 'what if' about the past; no matter how many times you restart, life will always have regrets.

224. A graceful person can be recognized by their silhouette; a diligent person can be recognized by their footsteps; a kind person can be recognized by their smile; an excellent person can be recognized by their actions!

225. In real life, every great achievement begins with confidence and takes the first step out of confidence.

226. Diligence is the password to your life, capable of translating it into a magnificent epic.

227. We always comfort others like wise men and torment ourselves like fools.

228. Success follows a probability distribution; the key is whether you can persist until the moment success begins to show.

229. Learn to choose, learn to give up; endure loneliness and withstand temptation.

230. A few more minutes of preparation last night can save you hours of trouble today.

231. Positive people see an opportunity in every difficulty, while negative people see some difficulty in every opportunity.

197. Do not seek to compare with others, but to surpass yourself. If you must cry, let it be tears of excitement; if you must laugh, let it be laughter of growth.

198. Who hasn’t been young in life? Each knows their own sweetness, bitterness, sourness, and hardships.

199. Overcoming difficulties and stepping out of crises will lead to success.

200. Those who dare to struggle are not afraid of difficulties in their hearts.

201. Hardship can sharpen a person's will.

202. Choose what you love, and love what you choose.

203. Tortured thinking leads nowhere, but hard work has a future.

204. Firmness of goals is one of the most necessary sources of strength in character and one of the sharp weapons for success. Without it, even geniuses may wander aimlessly in contradictory paths, achieving nothing.

205. Winter has arrived; is spring far behind?

206. There is only one road that cannot be chosen— the road of giving up; there is only one road that cannot be refused— the road of growth.

207. The workplace is not a fashion show but a gladiatorial arena. It is not about who is stronger, but who can survive and live longer.

208. Five people unite like a tiger, ten people unite like a dragon, and a hundred people unite like Mount Tai.

209. There is always a cup of wine that intoxicates before it is drunk. Everyone has a love story, whether deep or shallow; everyone has a dream, whether an illusion or reality. Collect the fragments of time, regardless of warmth or coldness, quietly cherish them; treasure the threads of leisurely years, whether good or bad, silently appreciate them.

210. We must not be third-class citizens: waiting for work to end, waiting for a salary, waiting for retirement.

211. Every outstanding person has a period of silence. That period is when much effort is put forth, enduring loneliness and solitude, without complaints or grievances. When recalling it later, even they can be moved by those days.

212. Start anew, with aspirations for the future.

213. It is not easy to gain a client, but losing one is very simple.

180. Only with a calm heart can the external splendor not be distorted and restless, allowing one to listen to the true voice within.

181. Life is not a one-way street; if one path is blocked, you can take a turn.

182. Life is not easy; it all depends on acting. Play the role of yourself, and forget who you are.

183. We may not be beautiful ourselves, but we must not let our life be unbeautiful.

184. A climber with aspirations for the peak will not be intoxicated by any footprints along the way.

185. If a person has enough faith, he can create miracles.

186. Faith is like a bird; it senses the light while it is still dark at dawn and sings its song.

187. Cowards will only hesitate, rash people can only get burned; only those who are truly brave can overcome all obstacles.

188. If we compare life to a lever, faith is its 'fulcrum.' With the right fulcrum, one can become a strong and powerful person.

189. Life is like an anvil; the more it is struck, the more sparks it can produce.

190. There are no dreams that cannot be realized, only people who do not wake up early enough.

191. With each setback in life, there is more insight; with each fall, there is more experience in struggle.

192. If you lie on roses when young, you will lie on thorns when old.

193. A soldier who does not want to be a soldier is not a good soldier!

194. It's hard to forget what was once possessed, cherish what is difficult to obtain, let go of what belongs to oneself, and keep what has been lost as memories.