The truth I learned after 10 years of marriage:

1. Don't wait for a man when you are young. How many years of youth do you have? Is he worth waiting for?

2. You can't refuse the gift, but you have to stop when it is suitable. Because human nature tells us that men will not cherish women who get them easily without paying.

3. Cohabitation before marriage is not recommended. Women who get pregnant before getting married are irresponsible to themselves.

4. Before knowing the character of the other party, it is not recommended to marry far away or marry low. If possible, please choose a man who is well matched and responsible.

5. Don't expect a man to treat you well all the time, that's unrealistic. Improve yourself and be financially independent, it will never go out of style.

6. Don't have too much financial dealings with men before marriage. Men's money is marked with a price, you can't spend it casually if you want. Please also take care of your wallet, your body and your body.

7. Proposing is a man's business, you don't need to take the initiative to bother. Normally, if adults have been together for two years and still haven't gotten married, you can break up

8. When choosing a man, character, responsibility and values ​​come first, followed by affection, finances and family. Otherwise, no matter how much money he makes or how good his family conditions are, it has nothing to do with you

9. Let everything go with the flow, look lightly at gains and losses, be fearless, some things are fine after hard work, and leave the rest to fate! If I gain, I am lucky, if I lose, I am doomed