We are always used to living, and we are also used to pursuing things other than life itself, such as the evaluation of others, money, etc., which may gain external recognition and meet the expectations of others.

But we only forget ourselves in a corner. How strong do we have to be to not care about others? Let's take a look at everyone's opinions.

wood:

In fact, I admire people who live more and more like children. You dare not express your own feelings, and you have to look at other people's eyes before doing what you want to do. Are you still yourself? Many things do not require too much time to think about, you just need to decide whether to do it or not.

Except for illegal things, most things are better done than not done. The more daring people are, the more gifts they can get from life. They all have a kind of superpower that makes people sigh. Put all your energy and time into one place, let it shine and influence the people around you. No matter how big the things are, stay calm and believe in your choices. I like paranoia. Jobs and Musk are the same kind of people. Both of them have quite legendary lives.

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fanwu:

A powerful person can help him not care about people who are not as powerful as him, but there will always be people who are more powerful than him in this world. Therefore, this kind of power has no end. A powerful person may still be rejected, despised, and hated by people who are not as powerful as him. If he still insists on proving his power, it only means that he still cares.

In summary, a powerful person will care about people who are more powerful than him, and will care about people who are not as powerful as him but do not agree with him. Therefore, if the definition of being powerful is power, then there is no way to reach the level of not caring about others. Adler pointed out incisively that having the courage to be hated is the real power. The courage to be hated can be expressed in another way, that is, not seeking the approval of others and not being bound by the opinions of others. This is the power at the wisdom level. When put into practice, it means being a strong person in life, a person who can dominate himself to a large extent, and a person who is free and happy.

liyangyang:

When you meet some very powerful people, you will find that they don't care about other people's opinions at all. They want to do things and will only do them according to their own ideas. As for other people's opinions, they just take them as references. Even if there are some sharp criticisms, they will just laugh it off and don't take it to heart at all, while ordinary people care a lot about other people's opinions.

The less capable they are, the more they care about other people's opinions. Even an unintentional remark from others can make them feel entangled for many days. This is the difference between capable people and incompetent people.

slide:

You don't need to be strong. You just need to recognize that most of the so-called "others" in this world are "worthless" if you think about it coldly. Although the truth is hard to hear, since you asked this question, it means that others have caused obstacles and pressure to you. But even if there are interests involved, he still has his so-called interests. If the other party can't give you any benefits at all, his opinion is even less important.

Unless it is your own unprovoked fault that hurts others, then you should really care and apologize. For the rest, just be selective. You can take the compliments and friendly communication from others to heart, nourish your mind and prolong your life. You don't need to pay attention to the slander and quarrels of others. A disdainful smile is the greatest contempt. The starting point and thinking point of everything is yourself. Since implementing this point, my life has become more and more relaxed and at ease, and I can enjoy it to the fullest.

We only live for a hundred years, and we are all human beings for the first time. No one needs to deliberately give in to anyone else. We should be gentle, kind, and considerate to those who deserve it. In other words, I can take the initiative to care about and care about others. This comes from my heart and consumes the least energy. But I can also refuse to listen to other people's ideas and reduce my burden. No one has the right to force it.

hengyan:

A person with a strong heart is a person with real thoughts, and a person with real thoughts must also be a person with a strong heart. With a goal in mind and a world in mind, he will not be affected by trivial matters and will not dwell on trivial matters. In the early years, the author published an article called the Law of the Important Few. The factors that affect the world are often the important few, a few people and things!


John Bunyan once said: If my life does not bear fruit, it does not matter who praises me; if my life bears more fruit, it does not matter who criticizes me. What is more important in life is what I want, not what the outside world thinks.

In this world, everyone is unique. As long as you are born in this world, no matter how others see you, you have your own unique advantages, potential and personality traits, and you have your own value. The key to realizing your own value is to rely on yourself, not on others. Success depends on your own efforts, dreams depend on your own realization, and happiness depends on your own creation, regardless of whether others are satisfied or not.

datou:

Everyone is a small universe. When you connect with yourself, you will have infinite power. Really powerful people rarely care about other people's opinions, but more because they know how to respect their own hearts.

In this world, there is never absolute right or wrong. Everyone's choices are different, and they are all driven by their inner hearts. We cannot understand everyone, but what we need most is to understand our own hearts, what we care about most, and what we want most, and not entrust our own destiny to others.
There is a saying: "The rest of your life is precious. Instead of pleasing others, it is better to enrich yourself."

Therefore, don't wear all kinds of colored masks, try your best to cater to others and please others; don't ignore your own characteristics, blindly imitate others, or try to make some changes to win the favor of others. We once looked forward to the recognition of the outside world, but in the end we realized that the world belongs to us and has nothing to do with others. Only when you affirm yourself, the world will affirm you!

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