It's not just men who will float when they have money. Cao Dewang once said: "In fact, most people are not suitable for getting rich, because the backlash of money is very strong. If a person does not have high virtue and wisdom, it is difficult to bear it. When the wealth of ordinary people reaches a certain level, they will ignore rules, etiquette, bottom line, personality, and morality. They will sell all these for money." Cao Dewang said this. It applies to everyone, regardless of gender. People who have not experienced it may think it is chicken soup, but those who have experienced it personally know that this sentence is reality. Controlling wealth is actually a kind of ability. It tests a person's cultivation, knowledge, concentration, and character. There is a buddy who was relocated around me. After getting the money, he first bought a Mercedes-Benz and drove it out for a circle when he had nothing to do, for fear that others would not see it. A few months later, he began to go in and out of the chess and card room, and later quit his job to play cards. Then he didn't go home all night, wandering around in the world of eating, drinking, whoring and gambling, perfectly interpreting the saying "Men become bad when they have money." I was still immersed in the emotion of envying him, but he had gone bankrupt at a lightning speed. Some people say that the level of cognition determines the level of wealth. If the cognition is not enough, the wealth obtained by chance will gradually decrease to the level that matches one's cognition. Once people are satisfied with their material life, they should pursue the satisfaction of the spiritual world, but people with insufficient cultivation have desires in their spiritual world. Therefore, once they have money, they will indulge in eating, drinking, whoring and gambling. The biggest test for the rich is bankruptcy, while the biggest test for the poor is a sudden fortune. When Li Zicheng started his army in Shaanxi, he could not have imagined that he could ride a "roller coaster" in his lifetime. From showing the flag to attacking Xi'an and proclaiming himself emperor, he used all his strength for 15 years, but it only took him 3 months to enter Beijing from Xi'an. The more exciting thing is yet to come. From entering Beijing to being driven out of Beijing by the Qing soldiers, he only lived in this city that haunted him for 42 days. During his days in the capital, he made a lot of money and his wealth increased dramatically, but he was addicted to wine and sex, and let his soldiers rob, and he forgot his original slogan completely. The dragon slayer eventually became the evil dragon. A year later, Li Zicheng fled to the mountainous area of ​​Hubei Province, where he was attacked by villagers and died at the age of 40.Everyone has a dream of getting rich, and pursuing a better life is everyone's common goal. But suddenly a large sum of money comes, how many people can control the desire brought by money? Money is a magic mirror. Human nature is profit-seeking, but there may not be wisdom to control it. If virtue does not match the position, there will be disaster. Because human nature is complicated, but people who suddenly become rich are more complicated. With money, they start to float. There is a critical value for a person's wealth. If the wealth exceeds this critical value, he may be unlucky. It's like an ordinary person is given a Qinglong Yanyue Sword as a Five Tiger General. If he tries hard to lift it, he will definitely sprain his waist. If a person wants to have money without disaster, he must constantly improve his self-cultivation. Only those who have insight into the laws of things can "not be surprised when it comes suddenly." If your bowl is too shallow, you can't hold the sudden wealth, and you can't hold it. There is a danger of being bitten back. At this time, getting rich suddenly becomes a disaster. In reality, there are too many such examples. There are people who have won tens of millions of yuan by buying lottery tickets, there are people who have received huge demolition compensation after their houses are demolished, and there are people who stand on the wind and seize an opportunity and fly. But the backlash of money is too great. A sudden windfall will expose a person's true nature and arouse repressed desires. Desires are not gender-specific. You can look at the examples around you. If you suddenly have money, you feel superior to others. Big gold necklaces and expensive watches, everyone wants to get in on the action. You dare to buy things that you didn't dare to buy before, and say things that you didn't dare to say before. Your humble attitude has become impetuous. You used to think about spending a penny, but now you don't even think about spending a handful of money. This is a kind of emotional out-of-control, because you suddenly get unexpected wealth, which is higher than your expected life goals, so you are extremely happy and your mind loses its wit. But easy come, easy go. There is nothing wrong with wealth itself. What is wrong is that when people face it, they will fall into a state of madness, which makes you lose your concentration, forget the bottom line, and lose morality. Xin Xiaodai, the koi of Alipay, was hit by the 100 million yuan prize of Alipay 4 years ago. After winning the prize, she immediately chose to resign and travel around the world. She spent 3 years of happy days in a chic way, but now she is in a dilemma of having no money and no job. So, how did Xin Xiaodai play such a good hand so badly?The grand prize of Alipay is not 100 million yuan in real money, but prizes provided by Alipay's global partners, most of which are given in the form of tickets and coupons, and have a certain period of time, which is very similar to some activities. This posed a problem for Xin Xiaodai. If she wanted to redeem these prizes, she had to resign and travel. If she relied solely on holiday travel, many prizes would be invalidated. Xin Xiaodai likes freedom and travel, so after a brief thought, she gave up her monthly salary of 10,000 yuan, resigned from the company, and prepared to redeem her prizes around the world. In mid-November 2018, Xin Xiaodai arrived in Hong Kong, the first stop of the global prize redemption journey. At first, Xin Xiaodai was happy. Not only did she share her travels on Weibo, but she also interacted with fans through live broadcasts. In order to redeem these gifts, Xin Xiaodai needed to catch flights frequently. She stayed in one place for a short time, and it was difficult to ensure that her body had enough rest time. Therefore, her physical condition was very poor and she often went in and out of the hospital. In Xin Xiaodai's own words, she went to the hospital more times in 2019 than she had in the previous 20 years combined. Not only that, for example: transportation costs are not included in the prizes, and Xin Xiaodai needs to pay for them at her own expense. Therefore, it didn't take long for Xin Xiaodai to use up all his savings and max out his credit card. Indulging desires will only bring disaster in the end. He became a passing god of wealth, a porter of wealth instead of an owner. If you want to inherit great wealth, you must first learn to cultivate your mind. Because the more wealth a person has, the higher the risk he actually carries, and the more he needs to rely on self-cultivation to resolve it.