There is a sentence in the Tao Te Ching that can solve almost all problems. The opposite is the movement of Tao, and the weak is the use of Tao.
The general meaning of this sentence is that the development of all things must go through the process of unity of opposites. When anything develops to its peak, it will turn to its opposite again.
The more you want to gain, the more you must learn to give up first. The more you want to achieve great things, the more you must start with small things. The more you want to accomplish something quickly, the more you must do it slowly.
Put yourself in a weak position, always be humble, and always do small things well. The low period is also the best time for a person to be reborn.
Put yourself in a weak position, hide your wisdom, abstain from desire and wake up, and act in accordance with the way and rules of Tao.