Let me tell you a secret. People who have not experienced it will not understand or recognize it.

1. Break through and build up. Experience the trough: Only after experiencing the trough can you see many real things, such as true human feelings and friendship. When you are down and out, you will find out who is your true friend and who is just a passerby. So, face the trough bravely, it will make you more mature and strong.

2. The wisdom of late marriage: Late marriage is not necessarily a pity. It may allow you to meet the most suitable person when you are most mature. Good fate is worth waiting for.

3. Face adversity positively: When things don't go well, don't complain, but believe that you can overcome difficulties. Your words are your energy, and use positive words to motivate yourself.

4. Cultivate your speech and aura: Learn to speak in a way that makes people feel comfortable and do things that move people. These are two skills that must be mastered in life. Cultivating speech can enhance your aura and magnetic field, making you more popular.

5. Bravely tap your potential: You only have one life, and you must believe that you have enough ability and courage to face everything. Tap your potential and make yourself stronger.

6. Between gain and loss: If something is not done, it may be that God is protecting you. Gaining is not necessarily a blessing, and losing is not necessarily a disaster. Keep a calm mind and accept all possible results.

7. Wait for the opportunity: When the overall potential energy is low, don't rush for success. Wait for the right time and let things develop naturally. You will find that bad things may also turn into good things.

8. Keep calm and cool: Keeping your heart calm and not being disturbed by distracting thoughts can make you more comfortable and comfortable.

9. Accept mistakes and summarize: You don't have to do things right all the time. What's important is to learn and summarize from mistakes. Even if you make mistakes, you can gain experience and lessons from them.

10. Grasp the attributes of opportunities: Missed opportunities cannot be caught again, but opportunities with the same attributes will appear again. Learn to identify the attributes of opportunities and increase the probability of seizing them.

11. The importance of life consultation: If you need it, I highly recommend you to have a life consultation. I can help you sort out your talents, opportunities, directions, etc., so that your life will be clearer and clearer.