Network: Two Terrifying Realms of Inner Strength, 1. Never ask others for reasons. Since things have already happened, the reasons are not that important. The reason you want an answer is that you cannot solve this problem. Remember: the fewer words a person speaks, the more focused their energy is, and the stronger their aura becomes. If others want to tell you the reasons, they will take the initiative to do so; if they don't tell you, do not break this silence. 2. Allow everything to happen. Whether good or bad, as long as it happens, it is a hurdle you must pass in your life journey. Regard all good things as rewards for your efforts, and see all bad things as helping you to avoid misfortune. A person's true strength lies not in resistance, but in calmly accepting. Allow life to have regrets, allow the world to be unpredictable, allow mistakes to happen, and then move forward lightly.