There is a way to turn things around, which is to humiliate yourself. If you are unemployed, can't find a job, and are in debt, some people may not understand what I said today, but it doesn't matter. Someone will understand, or you will understand after a few years. If you are unemployed in your 30s and owe a lot of debt, it is difficult to find a job to make a living. At this time, you must not panic, let alone dream of turning things around immediately. First, bear the pain and listen to me carefully. If you always think that someone can tell you a method or shortcut to turn things around immediately, then you are really a child who has not grown up. You have not recognized the reality, seen the society clearly, understood yourself, and seen through human nature. What is human nature? It means that if you have no money, no one will look down on you, and no one will really help you. This is reality. You used to think that none of your best friends would contact you actively. At this time, what they are most afraid of is sticking to people like you, and then the more you want to save face and suffer, the more unlucky you will be. It is estimated that in an interview, an interviewer who is a dozen years younger than you can humiliate you, a Didi passenger can scold you, and a customer can scold you for being a worthless person when you are doing service. In the end, you can't stand it anymore and reduce your dignity to the lowest level, then you will find out. Career and debt are not the worst things. The worst thing is that you are already a waste in this society that anyone can step on you. If you don't make a huge change at this time, your life will be completely ruined. Don't always think that you were a college student, an employee of a large company, and a manager before. The more you are called by people, the more you will fall into your endless mental consumption and cannot extricate yourself. The first step for you to turn over is to face reality bravely and learn to humiliate yourself. Have you noticed that the people who can really make money in this world are those who have been beaten by society. The worse they are beaten, the higher they will rebound. Those babies who grew up in a greenhouse can't understand human nature at all, and it is impossible for them to change completely. Let me tell you, if you are anxious, confused and have no direction now, it’s not because you are miserable, but because you are not miserable enough and life has not yet hit rock bottom.Recognizing human nature is not something you can do by reading a few books. You have to pay a heavy price. Only when you are beaten to the bottom of society, when no one looks down on you and no one respects you, then you start to climb up. You will become more and more emotionless, without family affection, friendship, love, and everything else. I don’t have money, so it’s all bullshit. When you are good, are those people around you the ones who like you? Don’t be naive. You really have to see the naked reality. How many of those rich people have feelings? Even their marriages and their children are for the sake of interests. A buddy of mine went bankrupt two years ago and was heavily in debt. His wife wanted to divorce him. They had a two-year-old son. My buddy gave the child to the woman. He told me that with his character, it was difficult for him to support himself. If the son followed him, he would only hate him in the future. The only thing he could do was to work hard to make money. When he had money, his son would take the initiative to recognize him as his biological father in the future. Don’t you think this is the truth? Now this buddy has done self-media through his own efforts, opened up traffic, and through traffic empowerment, he has opened ten factories for near-expiry food, and now he has turned over. A few days ago, he drove his newly bought Porsche sports car to Beijing to meet me, and told me that this was the car that our buddy picked up in full cash. Seeing him like this, I was really happy for him, happy that he really saw people clearly. And society, this is also the first step for everyone to be reborn in Nirvana. So if you want to turn over, please stop all ineffective socializing. You must know that people like you who are willing to socialize with you are basically not much better. Bad people and bad people together are a garbage dump of negative energy. When you are together, there is no comparison of good, but who has problems and can't make money, who is worse and more miserable, and you are more capable than one another. If you want to understand what I said, you should lock yourself at home, study hard, and study well. You can learn a skill or a craft. It's all considered a skill that can support you in the future. Don't always spend a lot of your time on anxiety and confusion, okay? If you can learn self-media, it is also a way out for every ordinary person to turn things around. Take me as an example, I am also an ordinary person. I rely on continuous efforts, continuous summarization, and continuous improvement to generate traffic. I update ten works every day, and each work is iterated and improved. I have done it now. I use my personal experience to tell you that opening self-media is opening your hope. It is an amplifier of your advantages. You don’t need to hire employees at all. It is your free employee, and you can shoot short videos.Videos can work for you for free, as long as you turn on the traffic, as long as you leverage the traffic, you will find that your life has changed. Brothers, listen to me and do it. You have nothing now, and you don’t need to worry about anything. Don’t always dream about the distant sky. From today on, remember these eight words in your bones, Phoenix Nirvana, reborn from the ashes. When you get the results and turn things around, please share your success with others. Finally, pay attention to me, there is a way out if you are professional in rising and falling.
