Let me talk about metaphysics.

The secret to keeping good luck is "non-contention".

The Diamond Sutra says "All things are like dreams, illusions, bubbles, dew and lightning".

Everything happens according to its own principles and laws. There is no fundamental good or fundamental bad in everything. Many things are attached to people by themselves.

In our eyes, the good or bad impression of things does not come from them themselves, but from our hearts.

So when many things happen, there is no need to be serious. You must understand that calmness like water is the norm of life. Just do a good job of classification. Those who should leave cannot stay, and those who belong to you will come.

The world is composed of diversity, not only black and white, and human nature is the same. It is not only good or bad. It is undoubtedly one-sided to look at a person without background and environment.

Everyone has his own difficulties, and there is nothing to worry about.

You just need to protect your "good thoughts" and don't be entangled by people with negative energy.

If you really encounter something that you can't figure out, you might as well explore yourself and seek knowledge more. The difficulty in front of you is attachment to appearances and obsessions. Improve your information level through reading, learning, living, and socializing.

When you have seen too many ups and downs, you can look at the development laws of a person, a society, and a world from a higher perspective, and you will be disenchanted by many things.

The best way to change yourself is to achieve unity of knowledge and action.

Write down what you want to do, recite it repeatedly, and then execute it firmly.

Replay your words and deeds in your mind every day, every week, and every month to judge whether they are consistent. If you are wrong, change it, and if you are right, keep it.

Even if your goal is difficult, in the process of repetition, with the accumulated efforts, what you want will sooner or later become a part of you.

In the words of Romain Rolland,

"There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, to love life after recognizing the truth of life."

If you read this, it means that you are a person who wants to change actively. I am happy and admiring you. You might as well start by leaving a positive thought of "I am fine". I wish you good luck and all your wishes come true. #BTC☀