Why shouldn't wealth be exposed?

Suppose your relative is desperate and needs 1 million yuan. He knows you have tens of millions. He can only kidnap you morally (or even kidnap you directly) because he has no better way. This is the most convenient way he can think of. If you lend him 800,000 yuan, he will hardly have too much psychological burden. Anyway, 800,000 yuan is a drop in the bucket for you. Even if he doesn't pay it back, you won't become poor, and he won't be too grateful to you.

Even if you give him 3 million yuan, he won't get out of poverty. He will think that this is normal. If he has tens of millions, he will give you 5 million yuan without blinking an eye. You only give him 3 million yuan, which is obviously not good enough and you are not as loyal as him. But he will comfort himself that not everyone in the world is as conscientious and loyal as him.

Suppose he doesn't know you have money, you can lend him 300,000 yuan, he will be very grateful to you and regard you as a great benefactor. You can even pretend to scrape together and help him get 600,000 yuan, and his life will be yours in the future.

This is the difference between giving the initiative to others and giving it to yourself.

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