[1] Don’t smile all the time, especially when you smile awkwardly.
[2] Say no to others openly and give brief reasons. Excessive explanations will only make you the wrong party. Remember, it is not your fault to say no to others.
[3] Don’t use your own embarrassing moments to amuse others, and don’t say things that belittle yourself and praise others. It is better to be conservative than to exaggerate, otherwise it will be counterproductive. Too much is as bad as too little.
[4] Don’t be a trash can for other people’s emotions. When others complain to you, please keep quiet. Remember, you don’t have to please anyone.
[5] No matter where you are or what you do, always put yourself first. Because no one cares whether you have considered other people’s feelings when speaking. What everyone cares about is whether what you say involves their own interests.
[6] Remember that you can afford to offend 99% of the people around you, and those who you cannot afford to offend have no time to pay attention to you.
[7] From now on, whenever you are faced with a choice, you should change from avoiding it to standing up. I just did this little thing, so what? Do things you have never done before; approach people you want to approach; call people you want to call immediately; walk on roads you have never walked before. Even if you fail, you have nothing to lose, because you never had them in the first place.
[8] Clearly establish your own bottom line and principles, and resolutely defend them with actions. Block those who borrow money and don't pay it back; stay away from those who are full of negative energy; knock down those who dare to bully you.
[9] Stop talking about whether you are worthy or not. There is no such thing as worthy or not in this world. As long as you dare, as long as you take the initiative to pursue, then you deserve many beautiful things in the world.
[10] Dare to pause. No matter how urgent the matter is, pause for three seconds before replying. For example, when someone makes a request or asks a question, if you dare to pause, your response will give people the feeling of careful consideration.
[11] Remove interjections such as "ah" and "la" when speaking or typing. For example, replace "That's right, of course, it's OK" with "Yes, that's right, of course, it's OK." [12] Slow down all your movements. Turn your head, raise your hands, and stand up slowly. Although slow, be precise. This will make people feel that you are calm and powerful. [13] Do not actively seek approval, approval, or criticism from anyone unless it is a specific environment.
