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Why are people with higher education more likely to be unfilial to their parents?

Most of the love in the world is aimed at aggregation, only one kind of love is different, that is, the love of parents for their children, and the ultimate goal is separation.

Many parents do not understand this sentence. In the subconscious of these parents, children are not independent individuals, but only a part of them.

No matter how old the children are, some parents always maintain a criterion: if you obey me, you are filial. Once you have your own ideas, and this idea is different from mine, you are unwilling to obey me, that is disobedience.

People who have little education and shallow knowledge are inherently lacking in strength.

When they face the world, they are often very panic and anxious. They urgently need others to guide and teach themselves.

At this time, they will consciously and unconsciously want to rely on their parents and let their parents take responsibility for themselves.

Because they need their parents to take responsibility for themselves, they naturally have to give up some independent power to their parents,

so that parents can control their lives. And this kind of dependence, obedience, and control, for some parents, is filial piety.

People who read a lot, have high cultural level and have a lot of experience usually have stronger inner strength.

In the process of growing up, they gradually formed independent thoughts and independent values. They tried to deal with the world and solve problems by themselves.

In the process of dealing with the world, they gradually found that many things were not what their parents said, or their parents' requirements were not reasonable.

They began to reflect that maybe what their parents said was not necessarily right, and maybe what their parents said was not suitable for me.

They gradually understood that no matter how close our parents were to us, they were independent individuals. They gradually formed a sense of boundaries.

For the same thing, our feelings were so different, and the boundaries between us were so clear.

If we can seek common ground while reserving differences, everyone will feel comfortable; if one party insists on controlling the other party and insists that the other party obey, we will all feel uncomfortable.

We must maintain boundaries, do our own life tasks well, and cannot force the other party to obey us completely.

We must separate ourselves spiritually and materially. Only in this way can everyone live better.