Many people have a big problem: they want others to give them advice, guidance, clear answers, and choices,

but they do not understand that, regardless of how you make decisions—whether you trust and follow others or integrate various opinions to make your own decisions—you are the one who bears the consequences, not others.

The advice, guidance, answers, and choices that others give you may not suit you and could be wrong; you should seek the answers yourself.

Although this world is filled with all kinds of answers, what you are looking for may not have a standard answer at all.

Is it possible to be busy for nothing and just stand still? Can't you create new answers?

What you need to do is to collect high-quality feedback, weigh the value and benefits, make your own decisions, and then embrace every outcome that comes. As long as you can accept and bear the results, that's fine.