One sorrow and one joy is life, one rise and one fall is destiny, one bitterness and one sweetness is living, one morning and one evening is the days. Life is your own, you don't need to care too much about others' opinions; they cannot live your life for you. Opinions can be referenced, but should never burden your heart in every matter. Everyone speaks and acts based on their own interests, preferences, and moods. If you listen to, believe in, and take everything to heart, how can you live? The most foolish way to live is to lose a day's happiness because of someone else's words.
Do not be pleased by material things, nor be saddened by personal feelings. This state is too high; it is not something an ordinary person can reach. However, we can at least treat others' words as passing winds, right? The gentle breeze awakens people; many things are hidden in the heart. Some things are fine to just listen to, some people are fine to just smile at, once they pass, it's good to forget. A spring breeze ten miles long is not as good as pleasing oneself. You are the master of your own life; others are merely passersby. Allow everything to happen, allow everything to be in place, and also allow everything to be out of place; allow everything to proceed step by step and also allow everything to go against wishes. Do not underestimate yourself; there is only one sun in the sky, and you are the only one in the world. The light you emit may not illuminate others, but it must warm yourself...