Have you noticed

The more arrogant and domineering women become after marriage

The poorer their family is before marriage

The more unreasonable women become after marriage

The heavier the bride price they demand before marriage

Their family gives them not a shred of security

Filled with deep inferiority

Yet they seem like hedgehogs

The more gentle and elegant women are after marriage

The wealthier their family is before marriage

The more understanding women become after marriage

The heavier the dowry they have before marriage

Their family is their strong backing

Filled with deep confidence

Radiating intelligence and beauty.