Whether it is an important node in life, a decision-making process when encountering troubles, or a major investment decision, everyone will involuntarily think in a positive direction, and everyone feels that they are the 1% lucky person...
Don't think of yourself as a lucky person!
The cognitive gap is too big in the real situation and self-understanding, and many times we cannot get the main points;
The Book of Songs says: There are tall trees in the south, and you can't stop thinking about them; there are wandering girls in the Han Dynasty, and you can't ask for them.
Translation: There are always green smoke coming out of the ancestral graves, but don't expect it to be your family; there are always goddesses being married, but don't expect it to be you.
Deep thinking; treading on thin ice; understanding yourself; recognizing the rules; judging the situation; $LISTA $PEPE $WIF