The process of growth is to gradually realize that most of the so-called "awesome truths" are wrong, or they are only suitable for a certain person at a certain stage. It would be a joke to change the scene and try to find the sword by carving a boat.
Let's take an example that everyone in the loss circle knows, selling a house to buy coins. CZ did it back then, and everyone said it was awesome. That's because he later did Binance. If he played contracts and lost everything, it would be better to keep the house. Another person also sold the house to buy coins. He bought it 4 years ago. In excitement, he didn't buy Bitcoin. I guess he would slap himself twice now.
Let me tell you another heartbreaking thing. Later, CZ used some scattered silver to buy a luxury house casually. Would he tell you? Do you think he would rent a house with you at this net worth?
There is no absolutely right thing. Stay away from those who tell you that this is right and that is wrong. Everyone only lives once, so who is qualified to teach others how to be a person?
Assess the situation, understand yourself, or drift in the torrent, or live in a corner and be content. As long as you make yourself happy, it's all right.