馬斯克說我30歲養成了一個終生受益的習慣I developed a lifelong habit of benefiting at the age of 30就是每次在我遇到了It's just that every time I encounter讓我感覺不對勁的事情之後what made me feel something was wrong衝突也好 不公正的待遇也罷Conflict or unfair treatment我都會用我自己的語言把它們捋順I will use my own language to smooth them out並且用自洽的框架解釋出來And explain it in a self consistent framework這個解釋可以是對一個特定的人說出來This explanation can be spoken to a specific person也可以選擇寫出來，自己再來看You can also choose to write it out and read
如果你感覺到了不舒服卻不表態
If you feel uncomfortable but don't express yourself
那麼你就一直處於沒有話語權的狀態
So you have been in a state of no say
更重要的是這些困擾在未來的生活工作
More importantly, these troubles will affect our future life and work
還是會遲遲不斷的找上你並無限放大
I will still keep finding you and zooming in endlessly
每次我和我的工程師夥伴吵架的時候
Every time I argue with my engineering colleagues
我有一個讓彼此都非常受用的點
I have a point that benefits both of us very much
就是我會保持冷靜地對他說
I will remain calm and say to him
現在請把你的感受和觀點分兩邊給力說
這麼做的好處
The benefit of doing this is that
你會越來越有底氣，智慧和勇敢
You will become more confident, wise, and brave
因爲用自己的語言去解釋一個事件
Because using one's own language to explain an event
本質上做這個動作的底層邏輯
Essentially, the underlying logic behind doing this action
就是在塑造自我，強化自我
It's about shaping and strengthening oneself
哥德說過：任何在積累知識的同時
Goethe once said:Anyone who accumulates knowledge while
卻不思考如何去善加利用的人
People who don't think about how to make good use of it
