The woman said she wanted to find someone who was ambitious, which meant that you either make money now or work hard to make money for me.
The woman said she wanted to find someone who was responsible, which meant that you should spend the money you make on me and the children, and preferably take care of my mother.
The woman said she wanted to find someone who treats her well, which means that you should hand over the money to her, listen to her, and buy her bags during the New Year and other festivals.