I'll tell you something secretly, "unspoken rules of human nature"
1. Don't reply to messages sent by others immediately, because replying immediately will make you look idle.
2. In someone else's house, if his partner hides in the room and doesn't come out, it means that you are not welcome. Find a reason and leave quickly.
3. When you go to a relative's house, try to choose a hotel. You will know if you think about it from their perspective.
4. Don't go to weddings without invitation, and come to funerals without invitation.
5. If someone sends you a "where are you" message on WeChat, it usually means that they have something to ask you, either to borrow money or to have a difficult matter.
6. When someone asks you to look at his phone, don't click or slide randomly, because everyone has their own secrets that they don't want you to discover.
7. You must listen to the words with the word "吧" in reverse, such as: "Stay and have dinner together", then you should find a reason to leave.
8. You can go to the store opened by your relatives less often, but you can't go there at all.
9. If you have just attended a funeral, don't visit other people's homes, or they will look down on you.
10. When visiting a friend's home, no matter how good your friend is, you should bring some gifts, even if it is just a few pounds of fruit, because if you don't bring gifts, your friend won't mind, but his family will mind.
11. No matter how wrong the children of your friends and relatives are, don't educate them yourself, because educating other people's children is like slapping them in the face.
12. When a man returns home from a business trip, it is best to call his wife in advance.
13. Don't talk about people who are not present. The more secrets you tell, the more dangers are waiting for you.
14. When you go on a business trip to another place, don't contact local classmates. You should understand that everyone is busy. If you contact them, they will have to entertain you.
15. When you go to the office of a colleague of the opposite sex alone, remember to open the door.
16. When you visit relatives and friends' homes, remember to report safety after returning home.
17. When someone pours tea for you, drink a little even if you are not thirsty. This is called respect.
18. You must pay attention to the money for the gift. The amount of money for the gift directly determines the depth of friendship between friends.
19. After drinking, do not send the opposite sex home.
20. When you get off a friend's car, try to close the door as gently as possible, otherwise you will be inexplicably disliked by your friends.
21. When someone invites you to a party, it is a rule not to bring friends, and guests do not bring guests.
22. When going out for a party, remember to arrive 10 minutes early. It is better to wait longer than others to wait. Over time, you will be trusted.
23. When asking for help, bring a friend that everyone knows, so the success rate will be very high.
24. Don't go to a company that recruits for a long time, the treatment must be not very good.
25. When you go out to eat, don't turn the table when others pick up food, and know to put down your chopsticks when you see others toasting.
26. Don't go to a drinking party you meet halfway, no matter how enthusiastic others are.
27. When you are old, don't get too close to your children. Live your own life and you can avoid many conflicts.
28. Try not to call others after 8 o'clock in the evening. Send WeChat when you have something to do.
29. If other couples quarrel and find you, even if you think they are not suitable, you should persuade them to reconcile instead of breaking up, because once they reconcile, you will be the one who is left behind.
30. When you ask others to buy something, you must pay first, and refund more and pay less.
31. The longer you live together, the harder it is to get married.
32. Whether you believe it or not, women who are drunk, smoke, and have tattoos will be looked down upon by others.
33. As long as a woman is not financially independent, no matter how well she does in the family, she will be disliked by men.
34. If you don't want to chat with someone, but don't want to offend him, just prolong the time to reply to messages.
35. When dealing with relatives, don't pretend to be rich, but cry poor more; when dealing with friends, don't have the intention to harm others, but be on guard against others.
36. Most people who advise you to be generous have bad intentions.
37. Most people who teach you how to make money want to make money from you.
38. When others come to speak to you fairly, it means that they are not speaking from your perspective.
39. Free products are all about turning you into a product.
40. Don't expect others to help you in times of need. If no one rubs charcoal in your face, you should be thankful.
