1. If you have a minor illness for a week, you will find that money is not that important, and family and health are the most important; if you have a serious illness for a month, you will find that money is very important, and health and family are also very important; if you have a serious illness for a year, I guess you are willing to give up all the money and fame you have at the moment in exchange for what you think is worthwhile. Unfortunately, most people in this world forget the pain after the scar heals, including you and me. When reading this passage, do you firmly know which people and things in your life are the most important.
2. What your parents have, you can’t ask for; what your parents-in-law have, you may not get even if you ask for it; what your husband has, your wife has, but there is still a hand between them; having everything is not as good as having it yourself. What others give is alms, you have to do it yourself to have enough food and clothing, and rely on yourself for everything, so that you can live more confidently! There is no such thing as choice difficulty in the world, it’s not because of poverty. Anyone’s confidence comes from economic strength, money can cure all inferiority, being kind is useless, you have to be excellent!
3. There is no need to continue to associate with people who abandon you at the most critical moment, whether they are relatives, friends or lovers. They know that you are suffering, but they watch coldly and even add insult to injury. When you are strong, they will forgive your weaknesses, and when you are weak, they will magnify your shortcomings. Such people are never worth making friends with, let alone forgiving.
4. Some women think they are red wine and have good masculine qualities before divorce. Only after the divorce do they realize that they are actually isatis root, which is drunk by sick people. Later they find that they cannot live the way they want even if they abandon their husbands and children. They think that moving forward is useless, and no one wants them when they want to go back.
5. This world is actually very fair. If you want to be better than others, you must do things that others cannot do; if you want a better life, you must endure more difficulties and bear more pressure that others cannot bear. Don't let anyone steal your dreams, because no one can pay for your life.
6. In this world, there is no job that is not hard, and there is no place where human relations are not complicated. No matter what you are going through, you must adjust your mindset and keep moving forward, and don't always complain about the pain and tiredness. Everyone has a hard time, and there is no need to regret life. If it is good, it is called wonderful, and if it is bad, it is called experience.
7. I almost forgot that I was such an interesting person, so cheerful and kind. This year, I was completely different. I was anxious and depressed and almost couldn't make it. Now I look down on all relationships. If we get along well, we get along. If we don't, we break up. It's no big deal.
The more you accommodate and understand, the more pain you will suffer. It is not necessary. Wisely giving up is better than blind persistence. Go get some fresh air. If you can wake up, it doesn't matter if you catch a cold.
8. The happiest thing for a person is probably to live in what he loves. With passion, you have a constant source of motivation. Even if the process of moving towards the goal is boring and the cycle of achieving it is very long, you will mobilize all your courage and patience, actively overcome it, and strive to be competent. Because this matter is satisfying to you, you are willing to give 100% of your passion for it in exchange for a result that "everything is worth it". In fact, life does not always need to have earth-shattering things. Because even just a small thing that you love in your heart is enough to make up for the long years.
9. You must learn to control your emotions. When you are in a good mood, you will find that your family, career, health, and wealth are all good. When your wealth is bad, you will feel unwell, your family is a mess, and you cannot make money. Always remind yourself not to go out with anger, do things without resentment, sleep without worries, and do things without haste. Do things when you are awake, read when you are confused, think when you are alone, and control your emotions when you are angry.
10. If a dog wants to eat shit, you must not stop it, or it will think you want to snatch it, and it may even bite you. Those who can change themselves are gods, and those who want to change others are crazy. There are only three best teachers in life: a dry wallet, a failed experience, and people who have left.
11. The final outcome of all people is death, so what is the meaning of existence? A hundred years later, there will be no you and no me. We struggle all our lives, but we cannot take away a single blade of grass or a single tree. Life is so short that we have no time to quarrel, no time to be sad, and no time to be petty. We only have time to love and enjoy. Remember this passage: making money is a game, living is victory, happiness is the truth, and health is the goal.
12. When you reach middle age, don't talk about how many houses you have, what car you drive, or how much savings you have. You should be happy and proud to say what you don't have. You don't have insomnia, anxiety, illness, or complaints. This is the greatest wealth.
Whenever you feel anxious and confused, read Master Hongyi's book "Nothing in Life You Can't Let Go" and deeply comprehend the wisdom of dealing with the world. Your family will be more harmonious, your career will be more successful, and your love will be happier.
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