Those who work at the bottom level, such as driving screws, delivering takeout, doing SPA, scraping putty, doing SPA, cutting hair, welding, or sweeping the streets, not only have a monthly salary of only 4,000-5,000, but basically have not bought a car or a house. Especially some workers in their 30s and 40s, some of whom don't even have a wife, and have been living a humble life at the bottom. The reason for such an embarrassing situation is not that you are not working hard enough, but that you don't know how to choose the direction.
In fact, society has always been realistic, just like marriage requires equal status. If you only know how to work hard at the bottom and live on a monthly salary of 4,000, it is reasonable that you cannot get a wife, buy a car or a house, or save 2 million. After all, if you are in cahoots with poverty, no one will favor you.
Maybe you will say that you come from a humble background, have low education, and have no background, and that it is good enough to find a stable job and work for a long time. But have you ever thought about whether you think your job is stable? Do you think you can live a good life with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan? Do you think you can support your family with this little money? I have to say that this is the stupidest idea and an excuse for self-escape, because you are a coward.
You have to know that "working hard will lead to nothing in the end". To put it bluntly, if you keep working for others, your mood in life will not only be decadent, cowardly, depressed, anxious, and melancholy, but the process of your life will also be difficult, embarrassing, wasted, miserable, and humble, because you have not truly experienced a wealthy life, felt the peace of soul, and appreciated the natural scenery, so in the end, your life will be a mess.
Don’t think that starting a business is hard. You need to understand that working is hard for a lifetime, while starting a business is only hard for a while. What’s more, you have nothing to begin with, so what are you worried about? If you are afraid of everything, you are destined to be a poor person. If you don’t know how to use your young capital to accumulate, improve and transform, you are destined to be a humble worker. Therefore, the root cause of poverty is not that society is too realistic, but your ideological cognition and ambition to make a lot of money.
Rich people like Jack Ma, Pony Ma, Liu Qiangdong, Lei Jun, Li Ka-shing, Cao Dewang, etc., all of them started their own businesses after improving their own thinking and using their own abilities, connections and experiences. So you don’t need to regard your current job as your only one. If one day you are eliminated by the midlife crisis, plagued by occupational diseases due to overwork, or disturbed by all kinds of disappointments in life, it will be too late for you to change.
In other words, even if you can't become a billionaire, the people around you who started from scratch also became worth 10 million after starting their own business, right? So you must first believe in yourself, create yourself, and change yourself. Only in this way can you find your position and start your own business and become a boss.
I have two real examples around me. One of my classmates has been working in a factory for others since he entered the society, with a monthly salary of only more than 6,000 yuan. Due to the sluggish market in recent years, he was laid off by the company last year. Now he works as a handyman in a very small company, earning only about 4,000 yuan a month. His life is miserable.
Another classmate of mine, after three years in the society, felt the cruelty of reality, and planned a direction for himself. Through his own efforts and accumulation, he started an e-commerce company in 2018. Now, he is not only worth over 10 million, but also has a firm foothold in big cities, and has face wherever he goes. In fact, from this we can see that the root cause of poverty lies in oneself, in one's own choices and planning.
It is not difficult to find that as long as you do not regard your current job as your only livelihood, as long as you do not indulge in the work itself, and transform yourself in light of the actual situation, you will have the opportunity to become a boss.