It is still difficult to understand what the sense of ritual and refinement is. Perhaps this is just a trap set by capitalists to induce those women at the bottom to look forward to the middle-class or petty-bourgeois lifestyle.
So, a funny scene appeared. Although they did not have the corresponding ability, they were willing to go into debt to pursue the so-called ritual and refinement. They could not do it themselves, but they also tossed their boyfriend who was also from the bottom. The little money that could have been used for the original accumulation of capital was trapped in the vortex of consumerism again and again.
If the bottom wants to climb up, they must first abandon their low-level cognition. If they have no money, they should work hard to make money. Don't immerse yourself in self-indulgence and fantasy at a young age. Don't paralyze yourself and deceive yourself by deliberately pretending. Don't imitate the lifestyle of successful women, but learn their ability and attitude to make money.
These so-called emotional values obtained by pretending have no meaning except to deceive yourself and have fun. In real life, we should learn from those who can make money. Those businessmen wear gold and silver and drive good cars to show their strength to outsiders. It is easier to get some convenience in actual business behavior, while ordinary people don't need it at all.
What ordinary people should pay most attention to is the cost-effectiveness of doing things and the ability to make money. When they can make money continuously, the emotional value they gain is far greater than pretending to be cool.