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In fact, when you reach middle age, you will find that no one really cares about you. You are beginning to be marginalized, and your connection with this society is weakening. . .

Friends who used to play well together are now busy with their own things. Some are married, some are raising children, and some are busy with work. There are fewer and fewer topics to talk about, and the intersections in life are also slowly decreasing. You even feel bad to disturb others.

You can intuitively feel what it means to drift apart.

The only people you can really contact are basically your family.

It is just that you suddenly feel that many things are becoming boring and you start to feel lonely.

Many people ignore the fact that you can't always be in your 20s, and you may not be able to bear the loneliness of being alone in middle age as you imagine.

Many young people fantasize that if they don't get married, they can eat, drink and have fun all day long, and they can be free with their friends. But the problem is: your friends may not still be good friends in ten years. If you don't get married, your friends will get married...

People's thoughts and feelings change with age. What you find interesting today may be boring in a few years. It's just that you are not old enough to experience it. The thinking of looking for a sword in a boat is wrong.

...Maybe you will still think that getting married is actually quite practical...

If you don't get married, it's mainly because your life has no direction, no motivation, and no sense of belonging and concern in your heart, as if this world has nothing to do with you. Friends will become distant, and parents will leave one day, and you will be the only one left in this world. You suddenly feel lonely deep in your bones. When you go home at night, it's dark, the pots and stoves are cold, and the house is terribly quiet. You want to go out and get some popularity, but the streets are full of people, but no one is related to you anymore.

You suddenly feel empty, like a stray cat with nowhere to go...…