"Small suggestions" to reduce family internal friction:

1. In ordinary families, if women do not manage the family, there will be internal friction in the family.

2. If men are too idle, there will be many family conflicts.

3. The elderly must understand: it is natural for children to provide for you in your old age, but you cannot take it for granted.

4. After marriage, brothers and sisters are relatives, and distance is very important, both men and women.

5. Husbands and wives, don't always do housework alone. After a long time, the other party will really take it for granted, even if both of them go to work.

6. When buying a house, you must consider the elderly. If you don't consider it, you will not be able to buy a house in the future, and there will be many problems.

7. When the other party is doing something, don't stand there and give orders, don't work hard, and nag. If you can't bear it anymore, a war will break out.

8. After marriage, men look for their wives for daily necessities, not their parents. Don't get it wrong.

9. Make more money, especially for ordinary families, 90% of the troubles are caused by money.

10. Husbands and wives should at least share money and discuss things, otherwise they will calculate against each other.

11. After children get married, it is the children who make the decisions. This is growth. If it is the parents, it is likely to be internal friction.

12. Cheating is a taboo. Even if it is forgiven, the family will fall into endless internal friction.

13. The elderly should try to treat their children equally, especially after their children get married. At this time, it is not just the children who are watching.

14. If the conditions of children are not good after marriage, the elderly should not rely on them too much. They also have their difficulties. What is needed at this time is mutual understanding between the two generations.

15. Daughters-in-law can only be praised, not scolded. Daughters-in-law are not daughters. Scolding is resentment.

16. In terms of improvement, it is best for couples to synchronize. One is too fast, and the other is standing still. There is no common language, which is the most terrible.

17. It is normal for families to have conflicts. Don't use cold violence. Husbands and wives don't have overnight hatred.

18. No member of the family should be infected with bad habits, otherwise it is often only a moment to destroy a family.

19. Women should not always choose to work late at night, otherwise there will be more family problems.

20. In life, you still have to be frugal, increase income and reduce expenditure, and the long-term is the kingly way.

21. Husbands and wives can quarrel behind closed doors, but it is best not to quarrel in front of the elderly and children.