Don't despise the poor young man:
Nowadays, boys are becoming more and more stingy and reluctant to give, which is normal.
I met a young man at noon today.
He was born in 1992, 32 years old this year, working in a large state-owned enterprise, with an annual salary of between 150,000 and 200,000.
So far, he has no savings, no house, and no car.
His ex-girlfriend is a girl born in 1995. The two had been dating for more than 6 years. The girl started dating him when she was a senior in college, and they broke up at the end of last year.
This girl, like him, is a native of a small county town.
After graduating from college, the girl went to a private school to be a teacher at first, but because the work was hard, the girl resigned and then prepared for the civil service exam full-time for 4 years.
She passed the exam last year.
During these 4 years, the two of them lived together, and all the expenses were paid by the man.
Although the boy had an annual income of between 150,000 and 200,000, he did not save any money after the expenses of the two of them.
The rent was more than 40,000 a year.
The two of them have to eat out occasionally, and the annual food costs more than 50,000 yuan.
Then the girl's skin care products, clothes, etc. are all paid by the boy.
It means that they spend all their money every year.
Then the girl passed the civil service exam last year, and then dumped the boy at the end of the year.
Then she found a man who was born in 1989 and had a house in the provincial capital.
The reason for the breakup was that she felt that the boy was not good enough, had no house, and no savings. She was 29 years old and needed a capable man.