1. There is no elder with a broad vision and unique vision in the whole family to lead the way. Due to historical reasons, there is no one in the family who does business, education or officialdom. They are all workers. The elders have no courage and ability, and do not understand the role of knowledge. They have not continued to learn all their lives and rely on their age to bully others. If young people have some ideas about their careers, the elders cannot give correct support and reasonably assess the risks. They often say: "I have eaten more salt than you have walked!" "Don't mess around, just have enough food and drink!" 2. Know that education is important, but don't think it is that important. There are not many educated people in the family. They know that education is important, but they still don't have awe for knowledge from the bottom of their hearts! If they don't live well and make money, they think it's bad luck and destiny! They would rather go out to work and earn a little more salary and leave their children to the elderly, rather than pay attention to their children's education at home, or improve themselves to learn, because they don't understand the long-term value of education. 3. They know nothing about financial knowledge. In addition to relying on physical strength or time to exchange for money, they think that any other form of investment income such as stocks, funds, and real estate is opportunistic and unrealistic. The money-making model through finance, resources, leverage, etc. has seriously exceeded their cognitive scope. 4. The "wait, rely, and ask" mentality is habitually dependent on thinking, relying on parents at home, relying on friends outside, and wanting to rely on children. They rarely think that they are their own saviors. If something cannot be done, they always look for reasons from the outside world. 5. The elders squander their time and health, and the younger generations double the repayment. When the elders in the family were young, they only worked hard to make money, without considering health, learning knowledge, improving cognition, and changing the way to make money. In the end, they sacrificed their health for money. When they were old and sick, not only would their own savings not be enough, but the younger generations would also have to spend a huge amount of time, money, and energy to take care of them. 6. Family affection is evacuated and there is no unity. The brothers and sisters in the family are all doing their own things, their strength is dispersed, they cannot form a joint force, and they are even not united, like a pile of loose sand. 7. Lack of conditions to improve cognition and change destiny. Influenced by the environment, most people are limited to the way of thinking of their original family. It is difficult for them to break through the limitations of their own thinking. Finally, coupled with the family’s material scarcity, it is even more difficult for them to contact the upper class of society. They cannot contact elites, and they don’t like to read. In the end, like their parents, they make a living by selling their labor and time.8. Don’t like to trouble others and lack high-level connections. Many poor people like to say that they don’t like to trouble others. On the surface, it seems that they appreciate it and don’t want to cause trouble to others. In fact, deep down, most of them just don’t want others to trouble them anymore.
