What kind of person is most likely to succeed?
1. The inexplicable nobleness on the body is a calmness. When interacting with others, it is good to be calm and gentle. Don't be self-deprecating and don't show off. The qualities that are unintentionally displayed are more likable when discovered by the other party, which is better than thousands of words.
Few words can be used to cultivate nobility, and avoid talking deeply with shallow friends. If you only seek temporary pleasure, you will often regret it after talking endlessly. Quietness is a great advantage of a person. You must protect yourself and manage mystery.
The ancients said that wisdom can be born. When you understand yourself, wisdom will rise. If you really understand yourself, you will understand the human heart, and by the way, you will almost understand everyone.
You will find that everything is a matter of the human heart. The rivers and lakes are not about fighting and killing, but always about human relationships. There is nothing new under the sun. If you understand your own black and white, you will understand the world's divergent paths. From then on, let the flowers become flowers, the trees become trees, and know how to wake up and see the intoxicated.
2. Face life positively, cure laziness, stop talking about discouragement, raise enthusiasm, and put aside your hypocritical heart. You have to rely on yourself for everything you want.
You can only get it if you work hard. You always give up on yourself too easily.
The saddest thing in life is to have great ambitions but waste time. You want so much, but none of them can be easily obtained.
So from now on, you must fight madly for everything that belongs to you. You must remember that a person must not only be kind, but also excellent.
3. It is better to improve your strengths than to struggle on your shortcomings. Don't demand yourself to become an omnipotent person. That is God, not a human. Continue to dig deep in the field you are good at.
The treasure you dig out is definitely more valuable than you spend a lot of effort to reverse your weaknesses.
4. Take the initiative to suffer rather than passively suffer. What I mean by suffering is not the degree of tolerance for poverty, but the persistence of paying for a set goal for a long time, temporarily restraining enjoyment and overcoming laziness.
5. If you want to ask someone to do something, you have to spend money. Most people's face is worthless. If you really want to get things done, treat it as a business. You only need to consider how much money you are going to spend to buy the result.
As long as you can think like this, even if no one knows you, you can get things done beautifully.
6. For those who rely on you, even if they are the ones you like very much, you should feed them until they are 70% full. If people eat too much, they will easily feel full.
There are not many people who are not relatives or friends, and it is worth your investment of feelings. If you are decisive and ruthless, someone will scold you behind your back. If you are kind-hearted, someone will scold you, and it is likely that you will be scolded by someone you don’t expect.
Loyalty is something that is easy to get, but difficult to keep for a long time.
7. People who can achieve great things are all masters of refining their hearts. As long as your heart is stable and clear, no matter how sweet your mouth is or how sincere your tone is, it is not licking.
But if your heart is fragile and vulnerable, then even if your attitude is arrogant and your words are fierce, it is just a pretense, strong on the outside but weak on the inside, and you are not in a high position, and you will only be manipulated by others.
A truly strong person has a strong core. It is through fully accepting oneself, mastering clear and effective human cognition, and understanding what high-quality feelings are like, that one gradually becomes less blindly obedient and more determined. People who can achieve great things are all masters of refining their hearts.
8. Don't be a person with too much shame. Strong people are lonely and have no shame. No matter what others think or say, you can feel at ease.
And what about poor people?
They care too much about what others think of them.
They can't eat well or sleep well if others say a few words about them.
9. Real strong people are ruthless. The so-called kindness to the enemy is cruelty to oneself. The story of sleeping on straw and tasting gall in history is the best example.
The kindness of King Fuchai of Wu gave King Goujian of Yue, who was a prisoner, the opportunity to hide his strength and bide his time, and eventually caused his country to be destroyed and his life to be lost.
When Fuchai turned around and begged Goujian for mercy, guess whether Goujian let him live a little longer?
Your competitors will never think of a win-win situation with you. They will only use the so-called friendship to make you believe in the illusion of a win-win situation, and finally he will win alone.
So you see that the world's top business players all suppress their competitors in an all-round way. They will beat their opponents to pieces, and they can't even raise their heads. They won't let their opponents have a chance to breathe!
10. When you ask someone to do a small thing for you, it is customary to give them a little bit of profit, such as a red envelope of 200 yuan, and they will be happy to help. If you don’t have a job, give a red envelope of 200 yuan to someone who has a job, ask them for some advice, and you will get a job.
When you encounter a small difficulty at work, give a 200 yuan red envelope to someone who can help you, and ask for guidance, and the difficulty will be solved.
When your master is careless when you first start working, give him a 200 yuan red envelope for tea and water, and let him take care of it, and he will be willing to help you.
No one usually refuses these small profits. If you are willing to give small profits, you can connect with any small person.
11. Have you noticed that when you encounter something, you will meet more good people if you take the initiative to pay.
If you are reasonable, damn, it's over. This thing should have been done in 3 hours, but it didn't get done in 30, 300, or 3,000 hours.
Fools like to be reasonable, and great people like to follow rules.
There are two rules,
Obvious rules are tailor-made for fools.
Invisible and intangible rules are for great people to see.
12. If we want others to help us, we can directly send a 200 yuan red envelope and tell them that if you don’t accept it, don’t help me. Otherwise, I will feel bad for the rest of my life. It doesn’t matter whether it succeeds or not.
Once this is said, more people are willing to help us. If someone is always asking for free money, he will never be able to stand up in this life.
13. If you lose money, you can earn it again. If you lose your job, you can find another one. If you lose your friends, you can make friends again. If you lose your love, you can find another one. You are born with nothing, so why fear starting over again?
Water becomes a waterfall when it reaches a dead end, and rebirth when people reach a dead end. It is always crowded halfway up the mountain, so you have to work hard to get to the top of the mountain.
No matter which choice you make in this question of life, there will be regrets. The real strong person will take out his heart and mend it himself in the dead of night, and wake up with confidence after a sleep. When you are alive, you should open up the mountains and build bridges when you meet the water. Forgive everything before going to bed, and you will be reborn when you wake up.
