Human nature is realistic, making money is the king, don't talk about useless feelings.
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Don't think that you can't make big money, and look down on small money. Stay at home all day, there will be no pie in the sky, you have no skills, no skills, and still want to make tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands a month, that is dreaming.
2.
Stop the behavior of borrowing to repay debts, otherwise your debt will get bigger and bigger.
3.
Find a job first, ensure your survival, and study a side business after work at night, work quietly for a month or two, and it will be more attractive than your salary.
4.
Cigarettes build bridges, wine paves the way, generous gifts open the back door, relationships take you on the fast track.
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In this realistic society, only your bank card and cash will not betray you, everything else is nonsense.