There is a very famous sentence in the Diamond Sutra,
but few people understand it. All appearances are false.
If you see all appearances as non-appearances, you will see the Tathagata.
That is to say, our view of a person or a thing is not the reality, but false.
We have false thoughts, we have certain ideas and motives about it, which forms the falsehood deep in our hearts.
You think you see the true appearance, but everything you see is just an appearance, which contains your false thoughts.
So you see, if you don’t like a person or a thing, it’s not his problem, but you have too many thoughts about him in your heart.
If you get rid of the false thoughts and look at him again, he has not changed, but your mood has disappeared.
So the mind will be lost in the material, so the mind will be confused and can’t see the essence of people, things, and things.
Without people, things, and things, the mind cannot be seen. People can see their own mind in the place where they can see things.