The truth that I only understood after I turned 30, money, money, money.
1. Don't spend money lavishly. When you can't even take out a dollar, everyone around you will stay away from you, look down on you, and laugh at you. People are very realistic animals. To put it bluntly, even your parents will look down on you, not to mention your husband.
2. Make money, save money, love yourself, rely on yourself, and be yourself!
Remember that no one can be relied on. The only thing you can rely on is yourself and money.
Putting money in a card is the greatest sense of security. Don't lend money to others for interest. You can put it in the bank for a long time. If you lend it to others, if you need it urgently one day, he can't pay it back for a while, it will really make you angry.
3. Invest in yourself to win steadily, or you have to have money.
4. No one in this world loves you, everything is an exchange of interests.
5. It is the greatest dignity for adults to hold savings.
6. I hope everyone will treat themselves as orphans.
Orphans have no parents, and when no one helps you, how will your life be. (My own experience, now I regret not saving money and not planning for myself before, never think that you are young and just live day by day)
7. Think of yourself as a single mother, if you are divorced with a child, how would you plan your life with your child?
8. When no one helps you, you should make the worst plan for everything, so that you can cope with all changes.
9. You must save money, if you have money, you will have confidence, if you have money, you don't have to look at anyone's face, if you have money, you don't have to ask others, if you have money, everyone will respect you, and money is better than anything else.