Some tricks to promote a date and advance a relationship, suitable for both men and women:
① Mirror Imitation:
Imitate the other person's body language to build trust. You feel like old friends at first sight and have a tacit understanding because of similarity.
Imagine yourself as a mirror. For example, if the other person drinks water with his left hand, you drink water with your right hand, which happens to be the mirror image of the other person.
But this is like an emotional switch, which cannot be relied on or pressed continuously. Once the other person finds out, it will become desensitized and immediately ineffective.
The key is to make sure that the other person does not notice when you imitate!
Experienced people imitate actions, while novices imitate details.
The speed, expression, posture, breathing, and catchphrases of the other person's speech.
This kind of miraculous coincidence will invisibly touch the other person's heart.
If the other person is a visual person, you should speak with gestures, open and close, with rich body language, simple and clear tone, and get to the point.
If the other person is a sensory person, you should speak slowly, use more sensory descriptions, and breathe synchronously, which will establish a sense of comfort with you in the other person's subconscious mind.
If the other person speaks fast, you should speak fast; if the other person speaks slowly, you should speak slowly;
If the other person has a high pitch, you should speak high; if the other person has a low pitch, you should speak low;
If the other person breathes slowly, you should breathe slowly; if the other person breathes quickly, you should breathe fast;
② Extreme emotional difference technique:
Emotional cliff: Loss and excitement are in a moment, and strong empathy will make people resonate with each other.
Riding a roller coaster together, watching a horror movie together...
Usually, the heartbeat will accelerate, blood vessels will dilate, adrenaline will increase, and breathing will accelerate. This physiological characteristic is very similar to the hormones and reactions secreted by the human body when in love.
The essence is that artificial hormones replace biological hormones to deceive the brain's review mechanism, making the other person's brain mistakenly think it is love.
③ The right medicine for the right disease:
People always yearn for the beautiful experience they have not had yet.
If they are not experienced in the world, take them to see the prosperity of the world;
If their hearts are already vicissitudes, take them on a carousel;
If they are just beginning to fall in love, they will undress for them;
If they have seen countless people, they will be by your stove.
The art of love, flowers, snow, moon, wine, smoke, clouds and rain in the evening.