After reading this, I want to say that cryptocurrency trading should not drag down your family. Here is a first-person account of the story:
My sister-in-law is a gambler. She has lost two million yuan in cryptocurrency trading over the years. Although it has nothing to do with me, I have suffered greatly from it.
Over the years, I roughly counted that my sister-in-law confessed to my husband at least seven or eight times, and the smallest amount was 120,000 yuan. She helped me every time, but after paying off the debt, debts appeared again soon, and each time was more than the last. Now there are cracks in our marriage. As a mother of two children, I don’t know how to face life next.
Since 2021, my sister-in-law has frequently borrowed money from my husband, saying that borrowing is a good idea, but it is clearly asking for it. I really don’t understand. Knowing that she is a gambler, why do you always tolerate her without limit? Either you say that my sister-in-law is still young and ignorant. She is 27 years old, is she still ignorant? Or you say that my sister-in-law just took the wrong path. If her brother doesn’t help, who else will help? I know they are related by blood. If my sister-in-law needs money to start a business, just give it to her. Even if I have to sell the house to support her, I will not complain. Even my parents-in-law often tell me to be more generous. I don’t eat or drink too much, and I don’t treat you badly. Why do you have so many complaints? I found that their whole family is like this.
My husband works in a listed company and his salary is not bad. I admit that he has been a good man and a good husband for the past 6 years of marriage. If my sister-in-law had not been speculating in cryptocurrencies, we would be very happy. I knew before that he doted on my sister-in-law, but I didn’t expect that he doted on her too much. I sent her some articles about quitting gambling, but my sister-in-law thought I had mental problems and told me that speculating in cryptocurrencies and online gambling are not the same thing. If they are not the same thing, how could she lose so much? I wholeheartedly wanted my sister-in-law to quit gambling, and I often forwarded some articles about gamblers to her. Unexpectedly, she blocked me and complained to my husband, saying that I treated her as a gambler and asked me what I was thinking. My husband scolded me without knowing the truth and asked me to be more considerate. Can I be considerate in this matter? Do I have to sell both of my children for my sister-in-law to gamble?
I actually thought about divorce last year. My parents always said that divorce would bring bad reputation and how could I live with two children in the future. I also considered their considerations. I wanted to divorce, but I didn’t want to, because divorce would hurt the children the most.
At the end of last year, my sister-in-law was in debt again. She said that cryptocurrency trading was an investment. I cried for a while and squeezed out a few tears. Everyone immediately sympathized with her. In order to help my sister-in-law pay off her debts, my husband promised not to help this time. He sold the stocks he held the next day, fearing that my sister-in-law would be wronged. I told my parents and they told me not to worry about it. As long as I took good care of the children, they would not ask about other things. I don’t want to ask, but my husband has lost his mind. He gave the common property of the couple to my sister-in-law, so what about his own children? You can’t ignore your own children just to help your sister-in-law, right? Dabao is already in kindergarten, and Xiaobao is two years old. They need money everywhere. Do we have to borrow money for the children’s tuition in the end before we wake up?
After a while, not long after the Chinese New Year, another 100,000 yuan debt appeared. It appeared before, but my parents-in-law paid it back later. I understand that the family is united, but he is a gambler. Is it really appropriate to keep helping him like this? My sister-in-law has been brainwashing my family, always saying that it is an investment and she has made money before, but my family just believed it.
On June 1, Children's Day, my husband mortgaged the house again. This house was bought before marriage, and he mortgaged 500,000 yuan. He said he was using it to start a business. Later, I checked online banking and found that he transferred 300,000 yuan to my sister-in-law, and the other 200,000 yuan was to repay his online loan. I have always believed that even if he indulged, he would not borrow online loans to indulge, let alone mortgage the house to indulge. I don't know how much online loan he borrowed. The repayment is 200,000 yuan. He told me that the mortgage loan was to be repaid by my parents-in-law, but I didn't believe it at all. Now it's mortgaged, and the next step is probably to sell the house. Where will I live then? Do I have to rent a house with my children?
I have been forwarding articles about gamblers to my husband, hoping that he would know that gamblers like to cheat people and are good at lying. Maybe to him, his sister is more important than anything else. This kind of deformed family affection is really hard for me to understand.
He gives me 6,000 yuan a month. With two children, daily expenses, and occasional snacks for the children, there is not much money left. So when it comes to the issue of the ownership of the children in divorce, if all is awarded to my husband, I will not be willing to do so. If all is awarded to me, I will not be able to support them. If I give each of the two children one, it will be unfair to the children.
I know that if this continues, sooner or later this family will break up. It's a matter of time. I want to go out to work, and no one will take care of my children for me. So it's not realistic to be self-reliant and stay away from this environment. Now I really don't know what to do...
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