REAL LIFE IS LIKE THIS 🙂
Every day you give candy to a child. You do it very often and happily.
That child would have also loved you. Every day when he sees his friend, he smiles brightly and runs to receive candy.
But then one day, you patted its head and said, "I'm out of candy." Suddenly you find it very different. It screams loudly that you are stingy, you are evil. Or it went around to slander you.
=> Lesson: When you give something to someone else, many times they will not think of it as a gift, they will think of it as a duty, a responsibility. And when you stop giving them what they want, they will immediately turn against you.
For many people, even if you give them candy every day, they only remember one day that you didn't give them!