Let's talk about something off-topic, about life!

How do parents ruin their children?

They suppress you in childhood,

And tell you to be more confident when you grow up.

They tell you not to compare your food and clothes with others in childhood,

Then when you grow up, they say you have no ambition if you don't compare.

In school, they tell you not to fall in love early,

And once you graduate, they urge you to get married soon.

In childhood, they demand you to be rigidly honest like Hai Rui,

And when you grow up, they expect you to be flexible and cunning like Qin Hui.