Young girls should try to avoid men in their thirties or forties who are self-made and wealthy.
Men who rise from the bottom, starting from nothing, are generally devoid of emotions because the process of climbing up from the bottom is accompanied by blood and tears.
Self-made men usually break through in the fierce competition without family support or other resources.
Such a background leads them to experience too much deceit and betrayal in their early years, tasting the warmth and coldness of the world, leaving their hearts as cold as the frozen earth in winter.
Some are just a sharp and resilient knife, like a lion on the grassland, brutal and bloodthirsty.
When self-made men are left with nothing but love, everyone talks to them about material things.
When they are forced to just want to make money, they can give up everything: love, dignity, and pride.
They will continuously discard their useless possessions, and in the process of climbing, they will face many temptations and many enemies, gradually becoming numb.
Self-made men have encountered complex interpersonal relationships in their entrepreneurial or work experiences, engaged in many projects, and have a deep understanding of human nature, making them astute individuals.
These experiences make them more cautious and less trusting of others, holding a relatively complex attitude towards interpersonal relationships.
They possess a strong sense of self-awareness and confidence, which is also one of the important factors for their success in their careers.
However, this self-awareness leads them to emphasize their own views and needs in interpersonal relationships, rather than focusing on the feelings and needs of others.
Therefore, they are relatively independent or closed off emotionally, with emotional needs that are relatively mild compared to others.
They place more emphasis on career and wealth accumulation rather than establishing close relationships with others.
This inconsistency in emotional needs can lead to young girls feeling lonely or unfulfilled in the relationship with them.
In everyday interactions, they are good at disguising themselves, not easily revealing their emotions, speaking appropriately, and acting decently.