Human nature is realistic, making money is the king, don't talk about useless feelings.
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Don't think you can't make big money, and look down on small money. Stay at home all day, there will be no pie in the sky, you have no skills, no technology, and still want to make tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands a month, that's dreaming.
2.
Stop the behavior of borrowing to repay debts, otherwise your debts will get bigger and bigger.
3.
Find a job first, ensure your survival, study a side business after work at night, work quietly for a month or two, it will be more attractive than your salary.
4.
Cigarettes build bridges, wine paves the way, generous gifts open the back door, relationships take you to the fast lane.
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In this realistic society, only your bank card and cash will not betray you, everything else is nonsense.