Why do some people say that you should post less on Moments?
There are no friends in Moments.
They are a group of secret observers. When they see your achievements, they will be sincerely unhappy and label you as showing off, and then pass by and don't like it.
They are a group of flatterers. When they see the big boss post a status, they all like it, for fear of falling behind.
They are a group of busy people. They are so busy that they check their phones all day long, but they don't check the high-quality articles you forwarded, and your forwarding has not resonated with anyone.
They are a group of indifferent people. When they see the happy moments of your trip, they snort and say that this grandson is out playing again, and then silently turn over.
They are a group of very "loving" people, who just look forward to seeing your status of "credit card arrears" and "can't find a job for half a year", etc., and they can read pleasure from it.
Therefore, if you regard Moments as a circle of "friends", you may be very disappointed. They are not parents or relatives, and they will not applaud your success. They are not partners who chat and laugh in real life, and they will not resonate with you.
The main components of the friend circle:
Relatives, most of them hope you are well
Best friends, most of them hope you are well
Strangers, more neutral
Colleagues, or agents, etc., some hope you are not well
People you once knew, such as old classmates, etc., some hope you are not well
It is obvious above, the main components of the friend circle. This is a depressing circle, waiting to see you do badly, so that you can become their topic of conversation. This makes you who originally love life become depressed.
