12 iron laws of human nature that you must know before you turn 40
In our daily lives, we should keep in mind some basic laws about human nature that are crucial to our growth and relationships. The following are 12 iron rules. After reading them carefully, you will definitely gain something.
1. Walking in the aisle of the train holding a bowl of instant noodles, you ask to give way, but no one pays attention to you. You said give way, be careful of burning, and everyone gave way. This tells us that people tend to behave in their own self-interest.
2. When you bring benefits to others, they tend to show favor to you. But if you always take without giving, others will gradually alienate you.
3. In the relationship between people, there is essentially only a relationship of utilization. Everyone thinks about how to take advantage of others rather than giving selflessly.
4. Between feelings and money, money is often more valued. Even if a person has good character and works hard, if he does not have a financial foundation, it is difficult to gain respect in the eyes of others.
5. Some people will abandon people who treat them sincerely because of money, and when they get money, they may also be abandoned by money.
6. A strong culture refers to a culture that behaves according to the order of things, and this also applies to interpersonal relationships. In relationships, there are often rules about who loves whom and who hurts whom.
7. Everyone acts for themselves, and others often act out of consideration for their own interests.
8. People who care about other people's opinions tend to live in the eyes of others, but in fact, others don't really care about your every move.
9. People at the bottom of society often try to take advantage of others, while people at the top of society are more willing to let others take advantage of themselves, which leads to the ever-widening gap between the rich and the poor.
10. Kindness often cannot satisfy the desires of human nature, because people often only remember the benefits to them and forget the people who helped them.
11. Really valuable giving is not given passively, but voluntarily. True gratitude only comes when we are willing to give.
12. Ultimately, understand that relationships between people are not based on gratitude and obligation, but on their own interests.
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