Feng Tang said:

"If a person gives me

particularly large negative energy,

I won't touch it again,

no matter how wealthy,

famous, or promising that person might be,

it has nothing to do with me."

If a person constantly affects your emotions,

making you irritable and uneasy,

and you can't change it yourself,

perhaps leaving is the best choice.

Leaving certain people

is not because they are bad,

but because being with them

puts you in a bad state.

What protects you

can also limit you;

what shelters you from the wind and rain

can also keep you from seeing the light of day.

Practice has shown that

those who drain your energy will never support you,

but will instead harm you or cause you losses!

A principle for dealing with matters is that

if a person or a matter has troubled you for a long time,

and you have been unable to resolve it,

every time you come into contact with this person or matter,

you feel uneasy, unhappy, and exhausted.

The best way to handle it

is not to find a better solution,

but to let it go.

Let go of this person, this matter;

this indicates that this matter or person is

energetically mismatched with you,

don't waste any more time and energy.

Any person or matter that consumes you,

a single glance is already your fault.

A person is strongest not when they persist,

but when they let go;

a thought of letting go, and all is at ease.

People are different;

some can recharge you,

a few words with them,

and you are fully revived,

ready to wrestle with the world again;

while others only drain your energy,

a single word from you

makes you feel like you’ve lost several days of life.

So, be sure to stay away from those who drain you.

Life is already difficult,

don't give others the chance

to add to your troubles.

Don't let your life

be filled with other people's negative emotions.

Any person or matter that affects your emotions

should be avoided.

Life is short,

and anyone who brings you pain

is better left behind.

"Approaching a person should be slow,

so you can see clearly;

leaving a person should be quick,

so you don't become reluctant."

Remember:

You are not a Buddha, you cannot save all demons.

People need nourishment, just like plants need nutrients.

Stay away from those who consume you,

get close to those who nourish you,

and be with those who make you feel comfortable

and bring you joy is the most important.

It is precisely a certain version of yourself at that moment, #快乐的生活