Young girls should try not to get involved with self-made, wealthy men in their thirties or forties.
Generally, men who have risen from the bottom and made a fortune are emotionally detached, as their journey to success is accompanied by blood and tears.
Self-made men usually break through in fierce competition without family support or other resources.
Such backgrounds lead them to experience a lot of deceit and betrayal at a young age, tasting the warmth and coldness of human life, making their hearts as cold as frozen ground in winter.
Some are just a sharp and resilient knife, like a lion on the prairie, cruel and bloodthirsty.
When self-made men are left with nothing but love, everyone talks to them about material things.
When they are forced to focus solely on making money, they can readily give up on love, dignity, and face.
They will continuously discard their useless possessions; in the process of climbing, they face many temptations and enemies, gradually becoming numb.
Self-made men have encountered complex interpersonal relationships in their entrepreneurial or work experiences, having worked on many projects, essentially understanding human nature thoroughly, each one a savvy person.
These experiences make them more cautious and difficult to trust others, holding a relatively complex attitude towards interpersonal relationships.
They have a strong sense of self-awareness and confidence, which is one of the important factors for their success in business.
However, this self-awareness leads them to emphasize their own viewpoints and needs in interpersonal relationships rather than considering the feelings and needs of others.
Thus, they tend to be more independent or closed off emotionally, with emotional needs relatively subdued compared to others.
They focus more on career and wealth accumulation rather than building intimate relationships with others.
This inconsistency in emotional needs can lead to young girls feeling lonely or unsatisfied in such relationships.
In everyday interactions, they are good at disguising themselves, not easily revealing their emotions, speaking appropriately, and acting decently.
