How do bottom-tier parents destroy their children?

When you were young, they suppressed you,

When you grew up, they told you to be more confident.

When you were young, they told you not to compare yourself with others in terms of food and clothing,

When you grew up, they said you had no ambition for not comparing.

When studying, they told you not to have early romances,

After graduation, they urged you to marry early.

In childhood, they demanded rigid integrity like Hai Rui,

In adulthood, they required flexibility and cunning like Qin Hui.