What kind of girls are the most fortunate in the Nine Purple Fire Cycle?

First, do not argue with fools about winning or losing.

As long as this matter does not touch your bottom line and does not harm our interests, these are all unimportant things.

Do not argue about unimportant matters; it’s not worth the effort.

If there is a quarrel at home or outside, and one insists on showing off their verbal skills, that person does not understand how to respect themselves.

This is also what morality teaches: only those who do not argue can avoid being argued with by the world.

Such people can distinguish between what is important and what is trivial, understand how to preserve their limited energy and time.

Second, turn a blind eye to small matters.

Open your eyes to understand this world, close your eyes to choose inner peace.

This is what is called 'out of sight, out of mind.'

If a man looks at someone a few more times, that's his humanity; allow him to look, do not feel uncomfortable.

If you feel uncomfortable, it shows how insecure you are.

Choosing to act confused about these small matters shows wisdom in a girl.

Third, do not pay attention to gossip, and do not listen to slanderous matters.

What someone said about us, or what they said about someone else, is none of our business.

There is no need to listen to these things, no need to care.

Do not listen to what is improper, do not see what is improper, do not speak what is improper.

Girls who can do this have a broad perspective and a big heart.

This is the great wisdom of girls, and fortune will naturally abound.