When people reach middle age, these things are necessary

1. You must buy a house. Don't listen to what people say online that buying a house is not as good as renting one. If you have a house, at least you have a nest. Do what you can according to your actual needs.

2. Children, whether boys or girls, must be sent to good schools as much as possible. Grades are not the key, a good growth environment is crucial.

3. Cars must be selected as high-end and top-end as possible within the scope of ability. People who have driven know the difference between high-end and low-end.

4. You must have a lover. Don't believe in the saying that living alone is so free and easy. When you are young, you are a couple, and when you are old, you still have only your spouse to accompany and support you. It is impossible to rely on anyone.

5. Travel, no matter how far or near, you must go out for a trip every year when you have time. Your vision determines your realm.

6. Financial management, according to your own financial situation and risk tolerance, you can make appropriate financial investments, and deposit them in banks regularly. You must make money.

7. Attitude, don't compete with anyone for wins and losses, stay away from meaningless socializing, and live a plain life. Just be happy.